What does it mean if a girl lets you sleep in her bed, and feel on her WHOLE body but not kiss b/c of a bf?

Question

(she is a christians which is why im in here)

she is dating someone that live in another state and she wouldnt kiss me because she thought she would feel bad for cheating. She and I have a lot of history, do you think that she is just a s.l.u.t or do you think that she likes me? What the heck is she doing?

Answer 1

She is displaying signs of mental and emotional imbalance. I would avoid this situation completely. Be smart. Don't let libido override reason, or a few weeks from now you might have a rabbit boiling on your stove.

Answer 2

She's not a s.lut. You're a s.lut.

Give her this heartfelt advice from me: dump the guy in the other state. How dumb at her age to "date" someone hundreds of miles away who she never gets to see when she could be meeting all kinds of new people ... or making out with you. Long-distance relationships are only successful for well-educated older folks who have learned that being attached to the same boring person your whole life isn't all that fun.

And you'd better know how to use a condom, buddy. And if you ever call any girl who lets you lay your grubby mitts on her a s.lut again, I'll kick you in the face.

Answer 3

The question should be to yourself. Jesus said that if you look at another person with lust on your mind then you have already committed the crime. This tells me that we are responsible for our thoughts and our actions. I think this can be an across the board rule for people under the new covenant and old. So what was on your mind Buckey? Maybe you have a lustful spirit? This is what leads to the addiction of pornography, a very dangerous practice. Sexual sin has no boundries once you get addicted. Please don't go there. And one more thing, why would you want to sleep with someone and feel her whole body? It sounds like you might have gone as far as she would let you. Do you not have any responsibility in it? Couldn't you have told her that you would prefer not to be involved with another mans wife?I know for me and I have been there believe me, I refuse to go to a candy store with out money. If I find myself in a place that is a temptation to me I pray God will give me the strength to make tracks out of there. Nobody said it would be easy, but wouldn't it be nice if everybody was sexually clean and you knew, when you decided to get a wife, she would be pure?

Answer 4

What were you doing in her bed if you knew she had a boyfriend? You know she's not interested in you. She probably figured she'd let you get away with just enough so that you'd leave her alone and go to sleep.

Answer 5

She might be a tease. Or she might be confused. Or maybe she doesn't know how to tell you to stop touching her. So leave her alone and let her deal with her issues on her own. And stop calling her the s-word. That is just uncalled for.

Answer 6

Have you ever heard of the phrase "Sealed with a kiss"? Maybe she figures that if she kisses you it will seal the deal, a kiss means alot to some people,kissing usually makes me fall deep into a person and i just want to let them have their way with me.

Answer 7

If you care about your spirit, leave her alone. She is a sinner because she had unmarried sex with you. The fact that she won't kiss you says nothing except that she wants casual sex with you and it wouldn't seem like she was cheating on her bf.

Answer 8

It reallly means you have hallitosis and you should use a strong breath mint before you get in bed with her next time!

Answer 9

She let you feel her up without a kiss, and she didn't consider that cheating? Are you sure she's a christian?

Answer 10

This girl sounds like bad news I feel bad for her boyfriend.