There's this guy. And I'm not sure if l like him, but he really confuses me. He asked me to Homecoming the day before...and I had to say no because the other girl he asked (who hadn't answered him yet) was standing 6 feet away from me, and I'm not exactly friends with this girl, but she's okay. But this guy really likes me, and he asked me for my phone number about a week later, and I didn't give it to him, even though I now wish that I had... but I don't really talk to him anymore, and he's always staring at me, and I really wish I knew what to do now. And, to top it off, I've never had a boyfriend, so anything you can tell me would be GREATLY appreciated...thanks.
2006-11-25 14:30:22 · 8 answers · asked by musical_indie_goodness 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I would say that you did the right thing by not giving your number and also saying no about the Homecoming thing becuase he is probably no good maybe why would he ask one girl and another ona date or what ever you want to talk it . To tell the truth he may be a guy that messes with one to many girls at one time. SO give yourself a pat on the back becuase you did the right thing or maybe I could be wrong jsut see how he acts alittle while longer and if things seem ok to you then go for it the best of luck
here is my email if you need more advice daniellepapillion@yahoo.com
2006-11-25 14:38:54 · answer #1 · answered by danielle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you like him, then I think it's your turn to start opening up and talking to him, as you've just dissed him twice and well....he's got heart if he even pushed for that second time....but if you look good to him he's gonna stare....of course whether he's gonna try again to get with you is highly unlikely because of the fact you've dissed him. SO....apparently now you're just eye candy (the look but don't touch person.) And of course he's gonna talk to other girls..the boy's single, i'm pretty sure that's ALLOWED when you're single...and like i said since you've dissed him already twice (i'm sorry but that's just the main part of the situation..rejection is a mofo..), he's gonna find his options elsewhere, someone WILLING to say yes.
SO...what it boils down to is if you like him (which obviously it seems you do.) TALK to him....make it obvious you're giving him a chance....otherwise...if you don't, then ignore it....if you dont' like getting stared at let his behind know, and don't let it distract you.
2006-11-25 14:43:59 · answer #2 · answered by Dennis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the thing i could say is that it seems like if he really likes just try 2 know him better talk 2 him more oooo yeah n dont hurry things up thats bad take ur time 2 know eachother i think that if he asks u u should say yeah!
he really cares bout u n dont worry bout that u havnt had a boyfriend things sre gonna be alright...
2006-11-25 14:36:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he asked another girl before u, then that means u weren't his first choice...which is not a very good thing...
2006-11-25 14:34:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wthell u're confusing him lol saying no to homecoming not giving phone numbers.. ill give him kudos if he ever even approaches you again.. you scared him homie
2006-11-25 14:34:15 · answer #5 · answered by joey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the previous answer...if you weren't his first choice, he may not really want to take you THAT much.
2006-11-25 14:37:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make out you seeing someone else , thats sure to stir that boy into action again .
2006-11-25 14:34:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him your # or move on
2006-11-25 14:32:54 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋