Ok me and my bf broke up and well its like everytime I am alone I just want to called him. It's like I have to call him and then I stop and something is saying dont call cause maybe its not a good idea and I am scared that he will tell me somethign that will hurt me even more. Then another voice is saying you have got to call cause maybe things will be ok maybe that is what will have to happen for us to get back together. You all may knowme from my other questions that I asked I sure so please help me in the best way you can please!!!!!!!!!!??
2006-11-25 14:29:30 · 7 answers · asked by danielle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Natural feelings... that's life... I'd say just hang out with friends and family, do a lot of homework, read, watch t.v., distract yourself basically. My breakup was like that, and I did end up calling a million times, but he kept his beeping cell phone turned off after our first fight really, then I sent him a nasty email and all, and yes, everything I did was dumb, but it made me feel better, and I don't regret it in the long run. I don't even regret my pathetic attempts to say "Let's be friends with benefits", I want to live a life without regrets, and you know, it was how I felt at that time. I might have looked a little weak, but you know what, who cares? Your feelings are most important, and acting on them isn't the end of the world if it comes to that.
2006-11-25 14:44:35 · answer #1 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love him, and is thinking of all the good times you two had together. Everything that you think of remind you of him, honey don't let a love song come on-it's definitely gonna bring back those passion feelings that you have for him deep within your heart , that natural! if you really love him and it was a petite thing forgive him and make up with your guy, if it was something major like you caught him in bed with a friend, or some other girl, or he lied to you about something that is important to you! that is something to think of, follow your head not your heart when making decisions about your love life> good luck........
2006-11-25 22:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by birdsdafly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can tell is don't call leave it alone if you all are meant to be it will be other than that move on and another thing is whenever u start to think about calling him remember want u all broke up for and maybe u want have such an urge to call. if u understand want i'm saying.
2006-11-25 22:34:20 · answer #3 · answered by jsxy695 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the break-up was not a mutual decision. I know that it is hard but try not to call him, occupy your time by being around people that are fun to be with. In time you will not miss him so much. You cannot make someone feel what that do not feel. Good Luck!
2006-11-25 22:35:33 · answer #4 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him, if he broke up with u it's either because he dioesn't have feelings 4 u anymore or that he found some1 better, and if u call hi it'll seem like ur begging, plz dont do that when a gurl begs a guy, itz just wrong the guy just, talks really mean to u and he'll say something that u don't wanna hear.
2006-11-25 22:42:03 · answer #5 · answered by Pau 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately the only solution is time. Believe in fate. That what is ment to happen will happen. If you are ment to be togerher you will, and if not, there is someone else out there ment for YOU
2006-11-25 22:34:15 · answer #6 · answered by Lottalove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would call him because if you don't take that step you will never know what will happen.
2006-11-25 22:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by FL tanner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋