Ok...the last two guys that I have dated just want to "be friends"...and the one that I am currently dating...(until he answers his phone) just want me for a booty-call I guess u could call it..anybody else just feel like quiting on their love life?
2006-11-25 14:27:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't give up on Love.
I happened to go out with two guys and a girl a weeks ago, they told me this girl is just 'friends with benefits'. The girl told me the same thing. She told me she wants a real relationship with this guy, but he's not interested. The point is that if you keep letting guys use u for a booty-call, u wil not get respect. They will treat u like "friends with benefits", so stop calling him and let him use u for a booty-call. Most like girls who are available for booty calls; but would not want to be a a relationship with her. Why? Just because she's been around so we don't respect that and don't trust her.
2006-11-25 14:46:56 · answer #1 · answered by THX_4_answering 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so with you on this one. I am mad that I put so much into this last relationship and she did so many bad things and just to find out that it didn't get better. I did call this one off and I was to be Married in may of 07 and I am a guy that wants to be Married. I liked it when I was married but that is another story . you can e-mail or IM me I can tell you some good stories
2006-11-25 22:35:11 · answer #2 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have quit. It's been a year since my last relationship, and I have not even had one date since then. I am in my twenties, been married twice, divorced twice, and heart broken so bad that I wanted to die. Hence, the reason why I have no desire to have any romantic relationships. It will probably be a couple more years or longer, maybe, before I change my opinion.
Good luck.
2006-11-25 22:43:26 · answer #3 · answered by Survivor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, just got to keep trying until you get it right. There are so many guys out there....you should keep trying. Maybe its the way you present yourself that you keep attracting the types you dont want? It also depends on how old you are too. Certain age groups are less likely to stay together than others.
2006-11-25 22:31:22 · answer #4 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you just need to make higher values.. find someone you really care about and know that they care about you as well.
I don't want to quit at love. I'm dating my best friend and couldn't be happier.
2006-11-25 22:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by small one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do, ive had it with my g/f promising me sexual things when i get home, then not delivering (my job takes me away 3-4 weeks at a time) then when i get home its just the same old thing. then yesterday, i spend all morning fixing her car and what did i get nothing, no home cooked meal or something special in the sex dept. no just a kiss goodnite and then nothong
2006-11-25 22:31:01 · answer #6 · answered by keithy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A sex life is not a love life. If you can get past that then there is a chance you may find love.
2006-11-25 22:30:03 · answer #7 · answered by Peloubet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well try picking different guys, not all are that way, but some girls just pick the stupid ones. Then complain when they get used.
2006-11-25 22:31:35 · answer #8 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes... I am currently going through the same stuff. I hate dating games
2006-11-25 22:29:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
after a three some
2006-11-25 22:29:56 · answer #10 · answered by timbers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋