I like a kind of computer freak boy who is a friend of mine. He is also so childish, unconcerned, and not romantic at all. OMG, I'm almost become frustated cuz he seldom reply my message and seldom say hi to me first. What can i do about this kinda boy?
2006-11-25 14:18:33 · 9 answers · asked by pelagiasong 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds very attractive actually - all that "Oh I'm so not interested, who are you again? I'm too smart to even notice you're a girl" thing. Yeah that would work on me too.
He might need a bit of a mental bonk on the head to show that you are a girl, he's a boy ... etc etc.
In other words, no use playing games because he won't get it or notice. He's a smart guy - tell him straight out you like him and want to go out. Then he can run the data through his computer and decide if he's interested or not.
2006-11-25 15:04:09 · answer #1 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strangely enough I have this problem. What connects me to these types of guys is that they're usually really smart. You wouldn't normally find that in a guy who is more interested in sports(than anything else). You most likely can connect with him at a different level because, as opposed to most other guys, he may not be concerned with what everyone else thinks of him. You probably feel really comfortable around him and his risk to be different (nerdy) is kind of a turn on. Just give him the heads up that you're interested in him. Good luck!
2006-11-25 14:33:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi honesty is the best policy if you like this guy tell him he is not a mind reader but if you are good friends and that dosent work out you could loose your friendship so you have to make a choice what is more important a relationship that might only last a month or friends that could last a lifetime
2006-11-25 14:26:49 · answer #3 · answered by robert p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, "computer freaks" are usually a smart type so you won't have problems with him behaving like an idiot.
Read this:
http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/sfo/66795671.html
OTOH, they're shy as they're smart so he might not getting your signs. Why don't you ask him out instead? Try for something he might like first, then he will more likable to try something you do like.
Believe me, I know several geeks and they're very good boyfriends.
2006-11-25 14:28:57 · answer #4 · answered by GN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really like this boy...then just ask him out...or have a friend do it or something...but who cares what other people think...its your feeling...and your heart...you chose the way...
and if he seldomly answers you...start a conversation with him in person
2006-11-25 14:22:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep talking to him and ask if he wants to be friends.
2006-11-25 14:22:54 · answer #6 · answered by bassmaim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loosen him up! Ask him questions like 'do you like my outfit'? Or like what's your fav. designer?
2006-11-25 14:23:37 · answer #7 · answered by anitasmith14221 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are he'll end up making alot of money so go for it!
2006-11-25 14:32:54 · answer #8 · answered by icantthink4155 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol if you're hot then there is no god
2006-11-25 14:28:44 · answer #9 · answered by joey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋