I like my old friend. He's my elementary school's friends. We're just a friend, actually we usually only joked around with each other. I met him again after 6 years in studying course for entering university preparation. Me and him enter different univ in different town so we can't meet each other all the times. After 6 month not meeting him, i realize that i really really like him. So i encouraged myself to write embarassing testimonial. I testify that i like him, soo much. But in a casual way. So, what do you think about this? Am i so stupid by saying the truth? Doest it mean that i can loose him, again?
2006-11-25 14:16:44 · 8 answers · asked by pelagiasong 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's never a good reason to not tell the truth. A relation based on a lie can never prosper. Tell him how you feel and ask him to give you an honest appraisal of his feelings for you. If theres nothing you can move on with your life. School has thousands of other options be patient.
2006-11-25 14:29:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could scare him away, yeah, but if he feels the same way as you do, maybe he needs you to make the first step. honey, you'll have regrets if you dont say anything. I say go for it! If it doesn't turn out like you want then you wont be hurting your brain with fantasizing and thinking about all these possibilities. If he says no, then move on, laugh about it, and try to get things back just to a friendship, its not that hard if both of you are mature. What do you have to loose? Besides, if he says yes...think about how good everything will be!
Honestly, just go up to him and tell him how you feel, dont be all sobby and whinny, just tell him straight up. Tell him that you've been thinking about this for a while, and want to know what you think and how you feel and if you think anything could come of this. Be open to what he says, and respect his honesty, thats all you can ask for
Good luck!
2006-11-25 14:22:14 · answer #2 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never put in to print anything that your not committed to. It can come back to haunt you later. Just let it happen. Don't send anymore testimonials.
2006-11-25 14:19:31 · answer #3 · answered by Peloubet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No... that sounds good. It would prally turn him ON, and not off!! Guys are strange like that, lol!
Good luck, 'cause yall sound like u'd be a cute couple! :D
2006-11-25 14:19:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say go for it! Ya never know unless you ask.
2006-11-25 14:19:54 · answer #5 · answered by bassmaim 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Too much too soon.
2006-11-25 14:19:34 · answer #6 · answered by theoriginalquestmaker 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i totaly think u r stupid
2006-11-25 14:19:26 · answer #7 · answered by Daria E 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no that sounds good!
2006-11-25 15:08:25 · answer #8 · answered by ~Strawberry Delight~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋