ive been going out with someone for about 10 months and im afriad to say anything to his face, bc hes kinda hard to talk too...what should i do?
2006-11-25 14:14:33 · 15 answers · asked by m p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be honest and kind, but be prepared for him to ask you why. It sounds to me like he hasn't a clue that you're not happy and this could come as a surprise to him; it's possible that he may want to work things out with you- and you have to be prepared to say "No."
Tell him that you don't feel like you're communicating as well as you'd like; you don't believe the situation is going to improve, and you want to end the relationship. Again, be as kind as possible, and tell him in person. Treat him the way you'd want to be treated if someone was breaking up with you.
2006-11-25 14:22:50 · answer #1 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The lastest trend to breaking up with boyfriends/girlfriends is by text messaging, instant messaging and over the phone. Don't do this!! The good ol' way to break up with your boyfriend is to talk to him face to face. Meet each other at a park or somewhere and while you take a stroll explain why you are breaking up with him. Do this gently because he might be sensitive, and tell him that you want to be friends with him. You may even chuck the cliche : One day, you will find the specia and perfectl one for you.
If confronting him is not the best option, explain through a letter but after that try to speak with him face to face. The last thing he wants to see is you dodging away from him. Good Luck. =D
2006-11-25 22:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by Alyssa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After 10 months he kind of deserves a face to face or at very least a phone call.
2006-11-25 22:17:15 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u r a guy the bestway to break up with a girl is to be honestand tell her the reasomn that u r not happy and mayb it will blow over alot better that it would if u never say anythg to her and never see or talk to her again.
and if u r a girl doing this the samething especially if u are cheating on him just tell the truthand yes hell b mad but if u explain the reason usually they will understand
2006-11-25 22:26:53 · answer #4 · answered by smtiboni2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow 10 months for a guy thats hard to talk to? then i should get 10 years every run..
"uhm there is a communication rift between us and i dont mean to hurt your feelings but i think its in our best interest to move on and find someone whereas chemistry wouldn't be an issue."
you gotta lay it out like it is cuz guys will suspect something.. even worse like u caught him cheating.. its so much easier on us to tell WHY ON EARTH EXACTLY WHY UR BREAKING UP WITH ME!
2006-11-25 22:18:26 · answer #5 · answered by joey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Email or TM or IM him. It's only 10 months.
2006-11-25 22:16:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Write him a letter then talk to him maybe a day later to make sure he understood it.
2006-11-25 22:18:32 · answer #7 · answered by Smile :) 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You own him an explanation. If you do not want to face him, then just use the phone. And do it.
2006-11-25 22:20:24 · answer #8 · answered by stewart j 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you think he'll react badly, then do it over the phone.
2006-11-25 22:23:32 · answer #9 · answered by honey 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Break it to me gently.
2006-11-25 22:17:13 · answer #10 · answered by Benvenuto 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋