how old should my son be before he starts to have sex?

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2006-11-25 13:51:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋

When he gets married. And if he thinks he can't wait can he financially support himself, a baby, and possibly a girlfriend. Sex also comes with a high emotional cost. I think that he should wait. What is the rush I am in high school and don't plan on having sex till marriage. I mean NO TYPE OF SEXUAL RELATIONS AT ALL. Tell him to focus on his education

2006-11-25 13:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by Prettygurl15 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋

I've worked in Planned Parenthood assisting with abortions, shoved long q-tips of teenage boys penis's because the love of their life gave them a disease, I've had to tell Teenagers that they have HIV, Herpes, and other viruses that can't be cured. If any of that sounds fun to you, then go ahead have sex, if not, wait..wait until your married. Marry somebody who has the brains enough to have waited for you. Probably *most* of here had sex before we were married, and look at the answers you are getting....it's not worth it anymore to risk everything for a bit of "luvin".

( I don't believe this is a parent asking, but the teenager himself.)

2006-11-25 17:06:37 · answer #3 · answered by Holly B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋

old enough to be married, mature enough to raise a child, and prepared to live the rest of his life with the woman he has sex with. If your looking for a number, I'd say no earlier then 25.

2006-11-25 20:24:20 · answer #4 · answered by olschoolmom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋

i'm about 16 and my boyfriend is almost 18, and i suggest you talk to your son about the risks..
i have had sex and it is not worth the stress of waiting for a period to come. talk to your son and his girlfriend. yes it's embarassing but you need to tell him your thoughts.

if he does have sex there is not much you can do about it but try to steer him in the right direction and buy him condoms, but just try your best to tell him not to have sex until his is mature enough to handle the thought of a possible child...

2006-11-25 13:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by OceanBreeze 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋

Old enough to be financially and emotionally responsible for ALL of the consequences that come with having sex.

2006-11-25 13:52:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋

If your really asking that question, are YOU really ready to be having sex???????? Let alone have a child!!!!! Your son will know the right time to start having sex. Its not up to daddy to ask for him.

2006-11-25 14:18:09 · answer #7 · answered by Alacyah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋

honestly it is up to the child, though I would let him know what all the consequences of doing it are, and that he has to be responsible if something happens, and he needs to be protected with every person.. if you keep an open relationship with him, he may come to you and say hey mom I'm thinking about having sex.. just don't over react like my friends do when thier child came and asked about it...

2006-11-25 13:56:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋

When he is married....I would never Allow my son to have sex while living under my roof. He might go behind my back, but I wouldnt condone it.

2006-11-25 14:06:02 · answer #9 · answered by Blondi 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋

ultimately, he will decide
you cna probably influence up to about 16, but after that there is little yo can do short of chaining yourself to him, and that might not even work
best bet is o talk openly, and make sure that when/if it happens, protection and all those fun things are used

2006-11-25 14:18:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋

how old should my son be before he starts to have sex?

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