I dont Know how to live with out him but we were not happy together,drugs and jelousy and my past had a lot to do with it,I wish he would of never pushed me to my limits,I was allready clean and sober when he started accussing me of thingsI wasnt doing I couldnt take it any more and I relapsed ,I started ussing with him,the problems got worse and he showed no remorse ,instead it seemed to me that he was glad I relapsed he even told me he liked me better this way so I start contributing with the money for thedrugs.Know that I am down and out he puts me down and shows no consideration for me what so ever ,worse of all all he does is look for me to degrade me critticise me and explain to me how much I deserve for him to have beat me up the last day we were together.I wish I could go back in time ,but most of all I wish I could get over him,HE used to be so different,I hurt him alot in the beggining of our relationship .
2006-11-25 13:39:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nice nickname...Twinkie, mine is Ding Dong
2006-11-25 13:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by stevensherm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kind of read your beads a little. My ex was very kind at first, but in the six months that we dated he became a completely different person in such a short amount of time. He kind of slowed down my life, and was like an unappreciative anchor. That's what your ex sounds like too, but to an even worse extent. Now, of course the problem of drugs only complicates things, and even though sometimes people think they're cool, there are problems to them. Everyone is very polarized on that issue, either they think they're awesome or they don't do them because they're told not to, very few people don't do them and understand why not to do them. Try not doing drugs if possible, maybe find a rebound guy to help you get over him, and listen to some sad music for a bit, then switch to empowering musics. Write journals and songs and poems and then try doing happy things, whatever you enjoy. I'd suggest going to church if possible, that can cheer anyone up, but that's not always a good suggestion for everyone. Same with family. I was depressed myself for a while and I used to have to take wellbutrin but after I dumped my ex and focused on reaching out to fun friends who liked me for me and accomplishing things in school, I became pretty happy. But I think the drugs and therapy helped a lot too, even though I'm happier off the drugs. (prescribed drugs)
2006-11-25 13:49:59 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's an @$$hole and whether you relapsed or not he would have ended up being a jerk sooner or later. quit blaming yourself, seek help... do good things for yourself and concentrate on you and making a better life for yourself. good luck! i hope everything turns around for you, and someday when it does you will meet someone who will treat you right and you will be so thankful for it. i wish you the best! happy holidays! have faith and god will make you strong!
2006-11-25 13:45:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you two deserve each other. I can't imagine why you aren't together.
2006-11-25 13:48:37 · answer #4 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋