Hi, i'm in 6th grade, i'm 11 years old, but i am a mature 11 year old and my aunt thinks of me as a mature 13 year old.
Anyways, there's this girl who sits directly in front of me and i have this HUGE crush on her. When i look at her i don't think she's hot, she's just overly nice and pretty. We always talk at the end of the day, and we talk and she laughs and I laugh, and she smiles and goes home and i think whoa.
My mom says i can date next year, but i want to date her NOW, and plus i'm not even sure if she likes me.
On top of all of this, the other night i had a dream that i told her i liked her and she went "WHAT!?" and took out a pair of cissors and cut my testicles off.
i once caught her staring at me and we made eye contact... for like 2 minutes it seemed like.
i've been her good friend since 4th grade and I just started thinking of her like this.
I'm like, whoa shes awesome....
WHAT THE **** AM I DOING! WHY AM I DOING THIS?
2006-11-25 13:39:22 · 6 answers · asked by no surprises 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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positive answers please
2006-11-25 13:46:57 · update #1
this is not my first crush, its just the first ive taken so seriously.
2006-11-25 13:51:56 · update #2
Well, as a 15 year old girl, it's nice to know that there are still some guys who actually think of girls this way. If you've been good friends with her since 4th grade, you don't have to worry about losing her. Just enjoy being her friend and let her know that you do like her. Trust me, I'm sure she likes you too. If she let's you down, don't be too upset because you can still be friends, remember that. But if she likes you too, flirt and be good friends and you practically will be dating, and then you can have her next year. About your dream, that's typical! Your just nervous and it may be your first crush, or so it sounds that way. And why are you doing this? It's called growing up, it happens a lot. Good Luck!!!
2006-11-25 13:48:37 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah DeBouter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
11 year old or 13 year old, it does NOT matter. kid, you are WAAAY too young. wait until high school. right now, your mind is not filtering your emotions. you only feel that tingly stuff that makes you smile when you look at her. but think about it, you could ruin your friendship if she turns out to be different from what you wanted/expected. you need to cool it. yeah, i had those wacky dreams when i was prepubescent too.
2006-11-25 21:49:10 · answer #2 · answered by need 2 get a grip 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
AWWW THATS REALLY CUTE!
i dated when i was 11 but my parents never knew cause im sneakyyyy they would kill me if they did LOL But don't do that!!! haha you must really like her! LOL dreams don't come trueee that much well i dont think she would actually do that!
2006-11-25 21:53:41 · answer #3 · answered by ~GiGGLES~ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude, your 11 years old.
seriously, 11 year old kids dont go out. and think about it, if your going to go "out". what kind of things would you do??? ew.
its not like your going to kiss. cuz thats nasty if your 11.
aand chicks dont need to be owned by a guy. + mature or not.
dont date kid.
2006-11-25 21:46:02 · answer #4 · answered by kizsescoco13 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
FRIST OFF WHY DID YOU CUT YOUR BALLS OFF so you should date this year just dont tell your mom thats what i did ok welll gotz 2 go later
2006-11-25 21:46:11 · answer #5 · answered by sugarplum 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW LOL THAT IS SOOOOOO CUTE!!! You are starting to like girls and growing up, it's totally normal. Just take it slow, you're young and have no need to rush things.
2006-11-25 21:44:47 · answer #6 · answered by curious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋