I'm 16 yo male always been kinda thin 5'9 1/2 i know i will be taller and get bigger later on in life. 128lbs have low self esteem because of my size, however sometimes i think im ugly somtimes i think im a perfect ten? How do i know if i look good? Also kind of shy because of self esteem.
2006-11-25 13:30:51 · 17 answers · asked by NyCz BlK BoI 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i believe that i have a nice face i take that as my best aspect of my body
2006-11-25 13:35:54 · update #1
hell f in no mi naw gay i do not like gay people and i am against gay marriage
2006-11-25 13:37:21 · update #2
I really believe it doesnt matter if you are really thin or fat. Its all about the confidence. If your self-esteem is horrible, you should work on that first and the rest will follow. You need to be happy with yourself and not care what anyone thinks. And if you are that worried about how thin you are, why dont you bulk up??? Its not like you have anywhere else to go in that department. Dont let your thiness or your self-esteem be an excuse on the reason you cant get girls. The only way to be attractive is to become attractive. Starting with confidence and happiness within yourself. I gaurentee once you are happy with yourself, you will start taking care of yourself better. Girls will notice as well.
2006-11-25 13:34:48 · answer #1 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5'9 and 1/2 isnt short at all, thats how tall my bf was and he was real thin to and um he had a low self esteem so girls didnt go up to him that much but everyone thought that he was hot besides himself so i think you should stop worrying about it and just act as if your a gorgeous guy cuz you can only live once
2006-11-25 13:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to be honest with you, it doesn't matter what size you are to me, but if you've got no confidence in yourself, I wouldn't be interested in you at all. Girls can feel when a guy's confident with himself or not. You need to fix that, either by just telling yourself that you look good, or go work out or something if your worried about your size. I wouldn't stress about it, if you want a girl, you'll find her when you stop looking. Sounds lame, but I'm serious, at least the better girls
2006-11-25 13:38:51 · answer #3 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should just look at the mirror and think of all the good things you have =) You sound like a great kinda guy =) Don't think you're ugly. God created you=D He neva makes mistakes =)
2006-11-25 13:36:34 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥Jabbawockeez♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To a girl it's more about your face, so i can't really help you because you only described your body. Umm....if your self conscious about your size then join a gym and work out, muscles look good on every guy
2006-11-25 13:34:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you're thin. but thats okay! the only hinderance is your shyness/self esteem issues.
most girls like guys with confidence, hold their head up when they walk, and who look at you eye when they talk.
the best way to improve anyones looks is a simple smile! anyways, agreeing with everyone else, girls are not hung up on looks.
sounds like youre a nice guy. smile when you say hi to a girl, tell them they look nice today, what color they're wearing looks good on them. something like that. girls eat that up.
remember, smile!
2006-11-25 13:51:38 · answer #6 · answered by nanabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yea your only 16 most people usually look better when they are in their early twentys. but u could be bipolar, sometimes they think they are hot and sometimes they think they look like crap. dont worry about it if u think your not hot then change the way u look to your likings. when i was 16 i thought i was hot but sometimes i thought i was a dog. but now i just think i'm really hot! and the reason that is is because people tell me and i think so, so its all in the way you think.
2006-11-25 13:39:34 · answer #7 · answered by laura d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want 2 know just ask some girl who doesnt know u that well their opinion but dont ask a stranger bcause u would freak them out or ask one of ur close girl friends 2 see. But if u do that chose some1 u trust who u know will be honest with u.
2006-11-25 13:35:16 · answer #8 · answered by karategirl2563 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know you are good looking if a female winks at you that usually means their attracted to you. You should also remember that girls aren't as shallow as guys. To a girl usually looks aren't everything.
2006-11-25 13:36:36 · answer #9 · answered by Annika G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask one of your good friends to tell u the truth if u look hot or not(a friend that is a girl). and ask them what u could do to yourself to make u look hotter!! Form what u said u sound fine to me :) Good luck <3
2006-11-25 13:37:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋