love over the net?

Question

im a married lady been in touch with a guy who is a solidier when hes home he lives not far from me talking to him over the net i think i have fell in love with him hes away untill the end of january and wants to meet up when hes home knows im married but says hes in love with me 2 help is he just trying to get then say to me after hes finished get on with it its your life answers please

Answer 1

HUN I THINK MOST OF THE MARRIED WOMAN ON THE NET HAVE FELL IN LOVE.
BUT ARE YOU SURE ITS LOVE AND NOT LUST? YOU SOUND DOUBT FULL HE WANTS YOU FOR YOU, YOU FEAR HE WILL TELL YOU TO GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE IF YOUR NOT HAPPY IN YOUR MARRAGE GET OUT OF IT BUT DON'T THINK ALL MEN ON THE NET ONLY TALK TO 1 LADY AT A TIME BECAUSE YOUR FOOLING YOURSELF IF THAT'S WHAT YOUR THINKING.
YOUR FRIEND PROBABLY HAS LOADS OF FEMALE COMPANY WHEN HE ON THE NET DO YOU 2 TALK 1ON1 ON THE NET OR IN CHAT ROOMS? HES A SOLDIER AND I DARE BET YOUR NOT THE ONLY LADY TO TALK TO HIM ON THE NET. DONT GET BURNT LOVE BUT ENJOY THE FUN OF CHATTING ON THE NET AND TRY TO GET YOUR HUBBY TO TAKE YOU AWAY FOR A WEEKEND IF YOU CAN. GOOD LUCK HUN

Answer 2

Hi,
tricky one but I think you need to make up your mind whether you have completely finished with your marriage or not. Because if you haven't I wouldn't even meet this guy and see how I can get the marriage working again and see the guy over the net as a little adventure that is now finished.
If you had left your husband anyway and finding this new guy is just an extra bonus then fair enough - but I still be careful. I know you can talk a lot over the internet and phone and whatever but it is always something different to meet the other person in real. Take it slow and just meet him fur a laugh and make no big deal out if it - then you can see how you two work out in real life and if it is still as good as on the net - Congratulations!
Wish you all the best !!

Answer 3

I am sorry but you are married. Before you do anything you should sort out your problems with your marriage first. Only then is it all right to think about someone else. And as you are not sure how the other guy really feels. tell him this and if he waits for you then you will know. I hope that helps take care and good luck.

Answer 4

I'm not preaching to you, but look at what you have.Look at what your going to lose. Sure the flirting is making you feel great now, but when you lose all you have for some one else. Do you really know them? Who else are you going to be hurting?Can you live there after?Are you going to give up on your friends too?
If you think this is really right for you.Your world will be heaven on earth...Then the hell with the others and do what you think will make you happy. do you think you will be able to trust him, or even your self? Find some peace with yourself, before you make a decission.

Answer 5

first of all - i believe that when you're in a relationship other guys should be out of bounds. however, it makes me wonder why you're online, talking to men, in the first place. if you're unhappy in your marriage and convinced there's no way things will improve again, then you should decide if you want to end it. what i wouldn't do is base my decision on a new potential partner as i think you'd regret it sooner or later. once you know for yourself whether your marriage is worth working on you are ready to make a decision with regards to a new partner.

Answer 6

personally I dont beleive in love over the internet, as you have not seen that person speak or talk to you in real life, plus you are married, think of your husband first, if you are thinking of cheating on him, remember it will mean you have to end it before you go doin somthin you might regret, i knew somone that cheated on her husband for more then 3 or 4 times, and he only knew twice but the second time he knew that she did it 4 times, like LONG times, and he forgave her only because they are married and have been for a long time, and this is what you call real love, i would have divorced her to be honest, but it took him a while to get over it but he did in the end , but he still thinks of it from time to time it is haunting, anyway, this is your choice but dont hurt anyone in the process.

Answer 7

DONT trust a soldier
they are only after 1 thing(sex)
Think about your family
With regards from HMS Forces IN IRAQ

Answer 8

T N Your Extra ! Your Extra!!...
http://www.osoq.com/funstuff/extra/extra01.asp?strName=T_N

Answer 9

I think that the solider is just saying what he did to get his end away sorry

Answer 10

i think that you should follow your heart.. i ahve fell for someone on here .. and we r meetin up in about 1 1/2 yrs