met this guy and we have known each other for a couple of months. he asked me if i wanted to hangout but we are 5 years apart .. hes older .. without telling everyone here my age lets just say im still in my teens and hes in this early 20's .. should i hangout with him or no?
im between 15 and 18
2006-11-25 13:19:54 · 8 answers · asked by k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are between 15 and 18, I would say that you and him should just be friends.
2006-11-25 13:22:33 · answer #1 · answered by guardianangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of guys in their early twenties like to date girls in their teens, and sometimes it happens. The decision making part of the male brain developes last which is when the guy is about twenty-five. It could work, the main problems you would be seeing, is the over 21 thing, you aren't. You couldn't hang out at bars, or clubs. And because he's older, he might try to control your decisions, movements, and even chatise you for talking to another guy.
There's also that possibility that he might pressure you to have sex. But if you're sure that you can handle that, and know you can break it off at any time, you can go ahead, but I would still suggest you wait until you're through with college before you start dating older guys.
2006-11-25 13:28:59 · answer #2 · answered by who_is_audrey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say no. If you were like 23 and he was 28..that is maybe a bit different. But I would just be friends for now until you both mature a bit and are on a similar level. Your worlds are a bit to far apart right now to make it genuine.
2006-11-25 13:24:03 · answer #3 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are no longer waiting to speak approximately engagements, you're being a solid pal for pointing that out. this guy is obviously on the rebound from his ex-spouse ... she could be careful or she gets harm. on the different hand she's an person and it quite is her life. so be respectful and don't be like "you're making a large mistake .. he's in basic terms too previous" and so on ... yet particularly advise her to "take it sluggish" with this guy and to no longer rush into something. the clock is ticking for him .. yet that does no longer mean it quite is ticking for her. if he isn't prepared to decelerate then she desires to pass on. she contraptions the regulations, remind her of that. in basic terms curious, yet are you able to proportion with us how they initially met??
2016-12-13 14:17:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 is underage. my opinion 5yrs dont matter if u like each other but wait till u r legal age
2006-11-25 13:22:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, i think age doesn't matter. if u like him, then go 4 it. who cares about age? look beyond that.
2006-11-25 13:27:51 · answer #6 · answered by lisa mills 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy's in their early twenties don't "hang out" with minors...they tell them that so they can try to get laid later.
2006-11-25 13:23:14 · answer #7 · answered by | 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
im pretty sure thats illegal?
2006-11-25 13:23:18 · answer #8 · answered by blahblahblahblahblah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋