Im no p*ssy. The way I see it, noone is genuinely better than me. Yet I have a lifelong habit of being so-called "passive" situations in terms of taking sh*t from most people. Over the years I feel it has done me more harm in terms of doubting my own motives. Ive gotten out of this mindset lately in re-evaluating myself as a person lately. Now, Ive had confrontations before. Ive stared a seven-man beatdown in the face and have rarely seen my anger on few occasions. My question to people who have dealt with the same obsticle, what methods if any have you used to deal with people yet contain your anger; i.e. articulate you're genuine anger better and more clearly. Im afraid my anger could take things too far if popping off at the mouth with raw emotion. Im not afraid of a fight but dont want to take much more sh*t from nosy/rude people in public situations anymore. My "passive" genuitey has seemed to make me an open target for mind games, politics, etc. Any suggestions?
2006-11-25 13:19:23 · 7 answers · asked by blah_blah 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
release your negative emotions and be happy just because you can , you draw what think about, I know, read all Dr. Wayne Dyers books again and again to you understand this subject. anger is a huge waste of your life, think peace and be peace and love and harmony........
2006-11-25 13:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by nocateman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had this problem in the past, very "hot headed" ready to jump on anyone in a heart beat. I think maturity has a major role in things. There also may be something inside of you that may be pushed deep down were this anger is nesting. Maybe you should talk to a therapist or something.
Best of luck to you!
2006-11-25 13:28:50 · answer #2 · answered by mom*2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anger Management.
2006-11-25 13:27:32 · answer #3 · answered by worries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, in your determination to not take other people's ****, do you know that you are actually heaping it on yourself?
You need to care about yourself and forget about them. It is not about them. It is about you.
Whoever taught you that you are not worthy was wrong. IN fact, that person/s was the one full of ****.
But it is easier to fight with your fist than to fight that fight, is it not.
You have really, really got to be strong and insist that you are not going to accept it anymore. Tell the world, and most especially tell yourself, that you are not going to create more **** in your life anymore. Finish with it. Be done with it. Move on now. Because each violent act of trying to prove that you won't take **** is actually doing completely the opposite and is creating a heap of it in your own life.
Stand up for yourself, The next time that you are tempted, whisper to yourself ten times, thirty if you need to, "I am still here." I am not going to take the bait. Walk away.
man, I know that takes strength and one day, you may get so sick of the **** in your life that you may finally do that. Then again, maybe you won't.
What do you want to do?
2006-11-25 13:33:48 · answer #4 · answered by adelaideruble 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd go and learn some keysi techniques, that made me so sure of my self that I wouldn't take any crap from anyone, and that would give me the power to control my body, thus focus my rage and inner strenght before exploding.
Seriously, learn some martial art, or give yourself into yoga.. that gives mind control and physical power.
2006-11-25 16:31:20 · answer #5 · answered by Hugo B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some counselling
2006-11-26 01:25:59 · answer #6 · answered by ♥monamarie♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OUCH !.....SOMEONE,S IN A PISSY. MOOD,.......
2006-11-25 13:25:33 · answer #7 · answered by ThomasL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋