My boyfriend is on his yahoo messenger and webcam all the time. I have told him how much it hurts me but he just gets mad. He says he has always been "nasty" and basically that I just need to get over it.
2006-11-25 13:12:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay, he's told you where he stands. Now accept it or end it because he's not going to change.
2006-11-25 13:14:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It seems he has no respect for you or that he cares nothing about your feelings or relationship. Its OK to be "nasty" as a couple. Porn is so different then chatting and sharing a web with other females. I think he has a major problem with addiction and I would leave him. Or better yet disconnect the computer and say its broke and maybe after a few days without the computer he will come to his senses. If not leave his nasty azz to the world of make believe.
I feel your pain.
2006-11-25 21:21:20 · answer #2 · answered by Sweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's tricky because the things that you allow someone to do for so long, they think its okay and its not and when you say something they get mad because for so long there has been nothing said about it. I think you need to take a stand and let him know how this makes you feel and dont back down, and if the issue hurts you alot then dont just get over it, and if all else fails...break his computer! j/k
2006-11-25 21:26:57 · answer #3 · answered by Mo M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my, he's a jirk! He is not showing you any respoect by being "nasty" with others. See, I don't agree with that...Some say it's ok... I guess it would be the same as going to a completely nude strip club. But then again, as my ex used to say, why do I want to go? I only went b4 was when I was alone....he's not alone any longer, what is his need?
2006-11-25 21:16:13 · answer #4 · answered by SunRise 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why does him going on Yahoo Messenger hurt you? Is it because he talks to other girls? Have you SEEN him talk to other girls?
DOn't be so jealous unless he really is up to something.
You sound sort of sensitive, but he sounds INsensitive. Wow, opposites do attract. Unless you aren't attracted to him? if not, dump him.
2006-11-25 21:15:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you already know the answer to your question. he should be devoting his time and energy on you not on his computer "friends". I would get out of this one right away. He's slimy.
2006-11-25 21:17:26 · answer #6 · answered by goddess1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, its no good no matter how you look at it. If hed do that with you knowing about it, hed do many other things when your not around-
RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN!
2006-11-25 21:15:08 · answer #7 · answered by l12tle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a new boyfriend. and if he asks why tell him that you are just getting over it but dumping him
2006-11-25 21:14:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
simple. just dump him...i dont like the way he answered you..it seems he is not sensitive to your feelings anymore...maybe he doesnt love you as much as he used to...
2006-11-25 21:26:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would leave him bcuz he could b chattin wit another gurl and y does he need a webcam?that jus gave it away and dat means chattin is more important than u is wat he thinks
2006-11-25 21:15:48 · answer #10 · answered by nintendo8888 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋