she tells me she loves me very much and we plan on having a child soon. She does enjoy oral very much. I have never been with a woman that didnt enjoy sex...is this normal? should i be concerned? maybe i can do something ? ANY advice would be helpful
2006-11-25 12:54:40 · 13 answers · asked by magictongue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This should be a significant clue as to "how things are going to go".
Later on she will not "enjoy" oral either, and this is not normal.
Should you be concerned? Yes
Can you do something? Yes
RUN the other way, before any children are involved.
2006-11-25 13:00:33 · answer #1 · answered by Sociallyinquisitive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know specifically about your g/f, but sometimes women do go through stages like that. I went through a stage like that AFTER I had my son. I couldn't have cared less. Sometimes it's a hormone thing, sometimes it can be that someone has a poor self image. The best thing to do is come right out and ask her why the sudden change. Ask her if there's anything YOU can do to help her want that again. Sex is a very important part of a relationship, so you need to find out why she's like that all of a sudden.
2006-11-25 12:57:49 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. MP 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is normal and it is not at the same time. Usually when women go through that it is because of something that is going on upstairs. Talk to her about it. Maybe it hurts, try different positions that do not penetrate as deep. Try to convince her to seek some medical advice. You might want to also remind her that producing choldren requires having sex.
Talk to her. It sounds like you guys have open communications.
2006-11-25 12:59:04 · answer #3 · answered by live4logan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. so personally i dont like even the idea of sex. okay thats a lie but i dont really like something about sex. I dont know what it is i just dont. my friend calls me "broken" but nothing is wrong with me. Now, dont take this the wrong why but maybe you should try more "things" to peek her interest if that doesnt work i wouldnt know what would.
Not to preech...but do you really need sex. I get guys like sex good for you but have you ever thought about hte other end of the stick?
2006-11-25 12:59:55 · answer #4 · answered by Niko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to be VERY unhappy when she turns it off completely. You two must not be compatible in the bedroom. I'm sure she's going to need to find an outlet for her sexual needs, and you won't be the first option. Find another girlfriend and figure out if the problem is you.
2006-11-25 12:57:13 · answer #5 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you sit down and talk to her about your concerns..she may have had a bad experience in the past and may have been reminded of it because of something you did. Dont be afraid to ask her. Best of luck with this.
2006-11-25 12:58:16 · answer #6 · answered by Reneg@de 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she pregnant if so its due to hormone changes, or maybe shes working to hard and to tired ;if that's not it tell her to see a doctor for advice as to what could be wrong;maybe you need to slow down let her approach you for sex,if none of these are it can you live in a sexless relationship.?good luck
2006-11-25 13:04:01 · answer #7 · answered by deedee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u kno she coulda said it in a moment of anger or just so it would bite u in the a s s...did u piss her off recently? not give her enough attention? she couldnt have meant that literally , girls say that if they dont like something or r mad at u for some reason...same thing as saying i dont care/ whatever....
2006-11-25 13:01:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like her sex drive has dropped, means a horomone change in her body, which means there is a possibility she is already pregnant... might want to invest in a pregnancy test.
2006-11-25 13:28:47 · answer #9 · answered by babyatgradys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god i thought that only happened when you married, if you dont want sex again stay with her if not get out now!
2006-11-25 13:00:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋