Last night I went to yet another stupid party and unfortunately, this overly-confident jerk latched onto me. Anyway, usually I can deal with that kind of problem, but what i didn't expect was this: while i was checking my makeup, he came into the bathroom (without knocking-how rude!!!) and um exposed himself! Not that I'm a little kid who isn't used to seeing that kind of thing- but I had no idea what to do!!! So, my question is, when a guy you don't know randomly exposes himself to you, how can you diffuse the situation and get the hell out of there? I ended up just freezing- not a very classy thing to do, huh?
2006-11-25 12:48:36 · 23 answers · asked by jemm4president 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A response I liked to use was, "Contrary to popular belief, exposing it to air will not make it grow."
I would then exit the room, VERY aggressively.
2006-11-25 12:53:09 · answer #1 · answered by live4logan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Crap. That does sound scary. Well, you could be nice about it or rude. This guy sounds like a freaky drunk guy who is WAY too over-confident.
Nice Way: Tell him you are not comfortable with this situation and would like to leave now. Or you have a boyfriend that loves you. Could be a lie.
Mean Way: WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING??? YOU'RE LUCKY I DON'T KICK YOUR *** RIGHT HERE AND NOW. NOW GET OUT OF MY WAY BEFORE I GIVE YOU SOMETHING TO MOAN ABOUT!!!!
My Way: Dude you so got the wrong idea. This is so not cool. If you ever try to pull something like this again I will rip it off sooo fast......
Good Luck............to ya
2006-11-25 20:57:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Miss,
You dont have a big problem. Any man that would expose himself to a Lady has the problem. Only a sick man would do such a thing. Next time just look at him and say: "You know, they make those in adult sizes too" and walk away.
2006-11-25 20:55:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it was me, I would have slapped him acorss the face. Where did he get a stupid idea to expose himself to someone who he just me? What a jerk! What does he think he'll achieve by doing that? What a stupid, sick person.
2006-11-25 20:52:21 · answer #4 · answered by xXPrincessXx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably were in shock, this does not happen on a daily basis.
Report him, to the people that were hosting the party.
Suppose the nest time he exposes himself and tries to rape someone.
2006-11-25 20:51:27 · answer #5 · answered by purpleone726 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is wrong with him , he needs help. I would;t do myself but it would be fun to point at that thing and break out laughing, just keep pointing all the way out the door laughing.. That would make him keep that thing where it belongs. He is a pervert and need to be reported .
2006-11-25 20:54:50 · answer #6 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to talk to your friends,parents and teachers if you don't want this kind of thing happen again! Normal people freeze like you did and if they ignore the person he only will get encouraged!
2006-11-25 20:52:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep he is a jerk for sure
next time encourage him to come close - put your hands on his shoulders and drive your knee up into his exposed region as hard as you can - he will get the messsage on rudeness!
2006-11-25 20:51:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its happened to me before and i would of i said to him i'd appreciate if you let me know that you haveto use the bathroom so i can leave.
I didn't say it nasty and i didn't say it like like my name is ms softy, my tone was regular.
Then, i walked out and told the people that i was with, we started laughing at it cause, i told them he had a lil wee wee lol and he shouldn't be so quick to whip it out anymore.
(PS it was a lil wee wee)
2006-11-25 20:53:53 · answer #9 · answered by Thebronx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Point and laugh at his D*ck.....LOL!!!!...He'll feel like such a loser that he will never want to do it again.....Just make sure that if something like that were to happen again (Hopefully it wont...ill pray for you)try to be as convincing as possible...laugh super hard and just walk away laughing
2006-11-25 20:52:14 · answer #10 · answered by Reneg@de 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋