o.k i have a bf and want to have sex but don't know if he will leave me and we have been together for a year
2006-11-25 12:44:43 · 8 answers · asked by kayk221 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my girl sounded just like you word for word. she was so scared i would leave her. she called me and told me that exactly, and i re-assured her and basically poured my guts out and broke down in tears cuz i loved her so much & i wanted to express my love to her in a new way.
but what you have to do is trust, but dont be stupid with it. if you trust him, go ahead with it.
hope this helps a little. good luck!
2006-11-25 13:05:01 · answer #1 · answered by sh8dybrady120 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I need to know more about your relationship. A year is not very long when it comes to relationships though. If he's been there this long and not cheated on you and you haven't had sex yet, then I applaud you for that cuz most guys (and girls) will not wait that long. they do it the first night, lol. But im not trying to tell you just to jump in the bed with him. Talk it out with him. Tell him you know what you want and you are ready to do this, but you just don't want him to leave you after this is over. If he does, then that's just a part of life. If he lays there and cuddles you, then he may not leave. If he quickly dresses and leaves, then he tried for a long time just to get after your p****, and that was his plan the whole time...
2006-11-25 20:52:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to have sex? Why would you think he would leave you? You might find out he doesn't want sex now and in case this happens you should not press him. If he also wants sex he will not leave you if he truly loves you. It is not the sex that would drive him away, it is the fact he does not love you. If I were you I wouldn't ask him if he wants sex but instead start making love to him and see if he goes for the sex with you. Be sure you tell him softly and lovingly that you love him while doing this.
2006-11-25 21:44:08 · answer #3 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No sex till you are married it only creates lots of drama for you. Don't worry about the bf if he can't stick around then that is his problem I know there will be others that you can date. Don't give in. NO SEX TILL MARRIAGE
2006-11-25 20:50:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally do not think that you are ready if this is your only concern. If you are ready to take that step then you guys should be abke to discuss it and the consequences. If you think he is going to leave you then I would think twice about letting the relationship go further.
2006-11-25 20:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by live4logan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there, if ur bf really luvs u than u can approach him directly and he cannot throw u out of his life.But tell u one thing love does n't want body it only want the person u love will love u and love u only.
2006-11-27 23:56:08 · answer #6 · answered by msk2005nika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go with you gut reaction on this one.. If you feel like you are ready to have sex and if you feel comfortable to do it...Missy
2006-11-25 20:50:31 · answer #7 · answered by melissa_spear2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you don't want sex while he wants sex. and you're afraid if you don't have sex with him he'll leave u?
if that's the case then leave him. cuz he's not worth it. he just wants sex and not u.
i'm guessing that's ur question cuz i dunno what else it can be.
2006-11-25 20:50:10 · answer #8 · answered by 2dogs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋