i have a girlfriend who is the most important thing in MY life but im not the most important in hers..i know i cant make her feel a certain way bout me (like love me more) so how do i deal with this cuz its drivin me crazy? i dont wanna leave her cuz im absolutely in love with her...does anyone have any advice for me..like something i should try to make things easier for me? i think about this girl allll day long and i always have to call her she rarely eva calls me and when she does call all i get is the same bad attitude from her but when she with her friends shes fine...im the biggest sweetheart in the world to her...honest to god...if i wasnt trust me i wouldnt be on this askin questions..so someone PLEASE HELP!!
2006-11-25 12:38:03 · 11 answers · asked by joey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It really depends on how long you two have been going together. Some people take longer than others to love and notice what they have. Try to let her call you and let her make the moves you are doing all you can. Distance yourself form her for awhile when you distance yourself from someone it makes them want you more. TAKE TIME FOR YOURSELF
2006-11-25 13:07:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't want to burst you bubble sunshine - but I think you'll find the reason she's bad tempered with you is you are not the main attraction - I think you'll find she has other males sniffing around her that she finds more appealing and she may even be getting from them what you wish you could be giving her - I think you're smothering her - I'd give her the cold shoulder - leave a vacuum - she'll either come running or she'll say thank god for that either way you'll know where you stand won't you and if she's blown you out then I'm sure there'll be another female that will have the real hots for you - the problem will probably be then that you won't for her !
2006-11-25 12:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through getting over someone. I think I was almost exactly like you. Even though she wasn't actually my girlfriend, I was doing exactly what you were doing there. What I've learnt throught this "healing" process is that you can't force love. It just happens. Her feelings are something you can't control so don't try to. Sometimes the more you try to hang onto her, the more she'll to slip away. Sometimes, even doing "nice/sweet" things will backfire on you when they're too frequent. Like/love her, but be very willingly to let her go, if she wants to. That's the greatest love gift that anyone can ever give to someone they truly love.
Be the guy that you were before you met her that's because he is probably the one she fell in love with the first time.
2006-11-25 13:02:01 · answer #3 · answered by eddy_guay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
♥ well what you should do is make her love you keep being nice to her dont call her like a stalker but call her talk to her remember she could just be cranky or something the reason she gives you an attitude. Tell her you love her if you hadnt already and thats all i can really say i dont want to say anything else because i have kinda had the same situation♥
2006-11-25 12:44:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha it's like as if u were in my shoes. its a hard position to be in. what u need to do is give her space. or she'll just blow up in front of you and then u'll be hurt cuz all u want is to be with her. etc etc. all i can say is time will tell if she'll love u more. if she doesn't then either accept that and stay with her or move on b4 she breaks your heart and find someone else who will return the same amount of love that u give out.
2006-11-25 12:41:32 · answer #5 · answered by 2dogs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like shes kind of not into you as much as youd like her to be...i think u should sit and have a serious talk with her and ask her if this is what she really wants and if it is, she needs to make some attitude adjustments because shes making you feel bad for something that isnt your fault.
2006-11-25 12:42:58 · answer #6 · answered by mclovin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to waste time on a woman who doesn't return your affections? That's silly. Forget about her and find someone who appreciates you. After all, she's not the only woman on the planet.
2006-11-25 12:45:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bud from the sounds of it, she doesn't REALLY consider herself as your girlfriend. i'd suggest dumping her and finding someone else. had the same sh@t happen to me when i was younger. it took me 7 years to gett her outta my system but it can be done. move on man before it's too late.
2006-11-25 12:43:48 · answer #8 · answered by mk_bovee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah, oh ! she thinks shes got you wrapped around her little finger, or your going to have to slow down you may be smothering her too.'by clinging to much and that could push her away too. so go slower ,and give her a chance to call you.
2006-11-25 12:45:37 · answer #9 · answered by deedee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think that maybe you might be smothering her
2006-11-25 12:46:25 · answer #10 · answered by inquistive275 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋