Boyfriend broke up with me a month ago. Said he needed time apart to get his life together, still loved me and wants to be with me in the future etc... I spoke to him a week ago and we just acted normal, did not discuss "us". At the end of the conversation he said "give me a call we should get together sometime". No clue what that means....what should I do...how long until I call him....should I call him...etc??? please help
2006-11-25 12:14:23 · 10 answers · asked by Jenny S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give him time to realize what he really wants. and also give yourself a time to think. 2 or 3 months spacing to both of you are enough, from there you will analize whats really goin on or ask yourself 'am i goin to continue my relationship with him? or do i still love this man. if you are sure 'that you love him' then try to make a call. talking with him thru phone, you will then analize, if you still care and love him. if you heart tells you that you still love him, then tell him you want to see and meet him. but if your heart says you didnt miss him anymore tho you love him, then theres no use of seeing him. give yourself also a space. as i analized your letter, he seems a little bit tolerant to continue your relationship, maybe he was hiding something or still giving himself also a space to think if he still loves you. at the moment try to keep yourself busy, go out with some friends, who knows you might find the right man for you.
2006-11-25 12:27:49 · answer #1 · answered by Salvacionf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him time, don't call - at least for awhile. Maybe you are smothering him. When people say give me a call, and so forth, its usually an empty thing said. Meaning that they don't really intend to "get together". Empty promises. Maybe he is trying to tell you in a nice way he's not interested. I may be way off, but that is what I get from this.
2006-11-25 20:20:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means that he wants his cake and to eat it to. He wants his freedom to do what he wants while still having you wait around until (if ever) he decides to come back to you. Don't give him that much power over you and your life. If he wants his freedom, let him have it. Don't call him back or talk to him when he calls. Find a man that wants to be with you and will treat you right. Moving on and being happy with someone else will be the best revenge on his trying to string you along.
2006-11-25 23:36:33 · answer #3 · answered by Radio Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him. If you act uninterested maybe he will think something is up and give you a call. If not then he is a loser and doesn't know what he is missing out on.
2006-11-25 20:20:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him. The guy who needs time is a fool because there is no time in love. Love is unconditional.
If you love his character, then you may call him. But otherwise, NEVER!
2006-11-25 20:19:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you should get back with him at all. he's just setting you up to be a booty call. what's all this about "stilling loving you" if he still loves you and all then he'd want u there while he goes through whatever is affecting his life. he's just leading you. find yourself another guy.
2006-11-25 20:17:57 · answer #6 · answered by 2dogs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont stop your life give him time to get his life together but get your life together to the world dont stop for him. i know that you love him but dont stop your life. and he want to hook up so call him call him tomarow afternoon see how he doing but dont ack like you miss him ack like thing are fne just like he will O and make sure that you hang up frist say something like i will just call to see what up i have to go call you later or something
2006-11-25 20:38:05 · answer #7 · answered by tacha_cb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you care to much be yourself if you 2 were meant for each other then it will work out. Don't'[t make dating so complicated.
2006-11-25 20:24:20 · answer #8 · answered by wkerr99_20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him, listen to what he has on his mind.
2006-11-25 20:27:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah call him and let him do the talkin!!
2006-11-25 20:16:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋