Me and my fiance had never had the chance to have sex on my period before. Never the right time I guess. But over thanksgivng break, I was on it and we wanted to have sex. He was so freaked out he went and bought some condoms. Something we havent used ever because we both got tested and I'm on birth control. We have been having sex for like 2 years and been together around that long.
Afterwards he was kinda disgusted in a way that hurt my feminine pride super bad. I almost started crying he was so cruel. Afterwards he apoligized and made up for it in a million ways, he said after a while he will get better at it. But I'll always have that memory. Is there anyway to let him know that its just a natural process. I'm so used to it I didn't think it would bother him. I guess its just a masculine thing. Men don't deal with it so they're scared of what they're not used to.
Men: can you help me out? What do you do about your gf?
Women: Have you ever had this happen? What did you do?
2006-11-25 11:55:07 · 13 answers · asked by Chanele G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we just do it in the shower(stand-up doggystyle), not a problem. If he's squeamish(I'm not) just tell him not to look down. The water washes it away fairly quickly anyway, but make sure you use lube. My gf says she likes it cause it speeds her period up by about a day, and makes her flow seem lighter.
2006-11-25 11:57:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really wouldn't hurt to wait until you are over your period.Besides that, did you ever think of your boy friends side and feelings.There are many, both females and males, who just don't want sex at that time of the month for one reason or another.
2006-11-25 20:01:59 · answer #2 · answered by tea cup 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You really, really , really should not do it then. It's wrong according to the Bible. Also not sanitary The body is cleansing itself.The body does not want it so why would Anyone want it on them.Not trying to be rude or anything just giving you the facts. I hate the mess myself Hate dealing with it and I'm female.
2006-11-25 20:19:05 · answer #3 · answered by Sugar 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't see the point either why men get so turned off from looking at things like that. It's such a natural thing for a female to go through, it's pretty safe, and it's kinda kinky. And what i also don't understand is why men perform anal on women, but can't look at a little, or sometimes alot, of "bodily fluids". And for him to put you down like that was wrong. If he knew he'd have a problem, why did he go through with it. "TYPICAL MEN MANEUVERS".
2006-11-25 20:04:46 · answer #4 · answered by Ebony da *Dimepiece* 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The answer is simple...just don't have sex while you are on your period. I don't think he is disgusted with YOU...it has nothing to do with you. Some people are just squeamish at the site of blood & it sounds like he is one of those people. No biggie.
2006-11-25 19:59:51 · answer #5 · answered by єЖтяα ¢яιѕρψ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that that five days that you are on your period should not be trying to have sex you should let your body clean it self out. as for your boyfriend you should let him know that he should not be scared because he not going to die or anything its just a little blood it comes and go get use to it
2006-11-25 20:10:17 · answer #6 · answered by tacha_cb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just doesn't want to have sex with you while you're menstruating. Maybe he's turned off by the mess. Maybe he's squeamish. Maybe there's nothing wrong with him at all and it's just a difference in attitude that you'll have to adapt to.
2006-11-25 19:59:23 · answer #7 · answered by rtanys 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
theres always people squeemish about blood, dont make a big deal of it, like the lady says wait a week
2006-11-25 20:00:12 · answer #8 · answered by goldmember1956 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is kinda gross if you have sex when your period is heavy and stuff. Even I won't do it.And I don't think he's scared, I just don't think it looks all that cool to him to have blood on his penis.
2006-11-25 19:59:55 · answer #9 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have had sex many times while woman was on her period..
If it bothered her , I comforted her and told her it was fine...
It always worked...I never let it bother me or her....
She should not be punished for having her period...
2006-11-25 19:58:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋