Ok i lke this girl...she used to be my girl when i was 10 or something...now im 18 lol...we've been talking since like 3 or 4 months...i saw her today in a bday we were invited in...she sat beside me and we kept talking until she left exept for some time when her friends came so she sat with them...but i asked her again to sit with me and i invited her friends to our table..we chat alot yet we never meet...so today was a coinsidence...im really a shy person and sensitive too...so i don't know what to do...don't think that she's interested and im shy to ask her out cause we never meet lol..but whenever i tell her i dont like that she never does it again..we talk daily on msn...so i dunno what to do...what i need is to tell me what do exept asking her out cause i know that i have to the problem is shyness and i dont want either to tell my friends to ask her to go out with us or something...i wanna catch her attention and make her interested lol...but as i told u we never meet :(...thanks
2006-11-25 11:49:01 · 12 answers · asked by A... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah.. nice, long sentence...
The answer is: you're not 10 any more, r u?
2006-11-25 11:53:18 · answer #1 · answered by Lady G. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well most likely your most bet is to just try your best to get over your shyness. I mean how else are you going to get to know someone??? If your sooo shy then one day when your one MSN talking with her just say hey some of my friends and I are going to dinner, would you like to join us? Just see if she is atleast interested in "haning out" with you and your friends. If she says yes then take that as a yes I am interested in atleast seeing if there could be something......
So don't be shy. Being shy will not get you any where in life. You have to be willing to step outside of your comfort zone to be able to get things you want. No one gets anything by not doing anything.
2006-11-25 11:55:44 · answer #2 · answered by browneyegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that would've been a good situation to read her body language in. Did she have her arms crossed or not, were her legs crossed or not, was she facing you when talking or looking away while sitting with you? All those things are important, it tells you whether or not she was secure around you and comfertable or if she was closed up and just sitting there......try to talk to her again, get her to go eat lunch with you somewhere or try to "accidently" be in the right place at the right time again =) Good luck
2006-11-25 11:53:50 · answer #3 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you meet everyday and chat on MSN, it shouldn't be that hard to make the first move. I'm shy (and yes, I'm a girl) and I have learned you just have to be brave. How about asking her to be a part of a group instead of on a date with just the two of you. Example: A bunch of us are going to the movie on Friday, would you like to join us. Just be casual and don't make a big deal about it. It sounds to me like she likes you.
2006-11-25 11:53:56 · answer #4 · answered by downinthevalley45 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what, if you have no guts to ask her out, then sit in your tiny room and cry while she dates guys who have the ba**s to ask girls out. What can you lose? A girlfriend you don't have? You are who you are, you offer your best, and if she doesn't like it, whop-de-do; someone will. Big deal, asking a chick out. I mean, I get it, you're a kid and porbably don't know your *** from your head yet, but you won't learn how to swim until you get your butt wet - so stop whining and ask her out & let the chips fall where they may. Time to grow up.
2006-11-25 11:55:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude get a hobby take up a unisex sport or activity like pool i mean in person get good at it and then ask her to join you if she says she is not good tell her you will teach her and remeber you don't have to be serious right off the bat just find a connection
2006-11-25 11:56:06 · answer #6 · answered by Talking Hat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a chance hon.Your 18 now so just ask her out.I mean really all she can do is say no.You can live with that. But if u don't ask her out and she would of said yes and u would of had a great time.Well thats harder to live with...Ask her !!!!!!!!!!!1
2006-11-25 11:54:18 · answer #7 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Most of my BA's come from strangers, I answer my contacts' questions because I like the questions not for BA's.
2016-05-23 02:34:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep doing what youre doing, she will let you know what to do. If you think she is trying to find out if you like her, then find an easy way to let her know. I know this doesnt help much, but you just have to wait it out.
2006-11-25 11:51:38 · answer #9 · answered by good golly! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont be shy or afraid! just go for it!!!i mean, come on, the worst she can say is no! just go and ask her out!! good luck :), and remember, be confident!
2006-11-25 11:53:01 · answer #10 · answered by Bridget 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋