2006-11-25 11:45:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
Think hyperactive learning disorder, and check out with a physician if there's anything he can suggest.
2006-11-25 11:47:55 · answer #1 · answered by chilixa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A child isn't "miserable" for no reason. His enviorment and his influences play the most important part of his life. he is only 3..what does he have to be miserable about? have you had him thoroughly checked by a Dr for any illness that you may have missed?..ear infections or anything?..Are you fully aware and knowledgeable about child rearing and child development? (believe it or not..just because a person can have s ex and a baby it does not make them a positive parent..) Look within yourself...do some reading..some research...educate yourself..the term you used.."he has always been miserable" is the red flag that was sent off that YOU are likely missing out on something important
2006-11-25 21:54:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to begin with, you should try to find out why he is miserable. Is he just unhappy, and if so, why? Then go from there. If he is miserable, meaning just not feeling like playing, or sleepy all the time, and just nasty, maybe he has something wrong, maybe he is not feeling well. If you think that he is not feeling well, then get him to the doctor. If you think he is unhappy about something, try making him happier. Does he need more playtime, more running around, different playmates, change of scenery? Sometimes kids just get bored, if that's the case, do something different. Good luck!
2006-11-29 15:27:31 · answer #3 · answered by JerseyGirl4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Miserable children grow up to a harsh environment in which the parents are mean to the kids or don't give them any attention at all. You could try speaking with him, playing with him more often, take him to movie, or just do something that he really enjoys.
If I was a three year old I would want lots of attention from my Mom, LTC (Loving Tender Care), a good envrionment, parents who will love me no matter what, and lastly fun time with my parents.
2006-11-25 20:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by pup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow do you really despise your child that much to say he has always been miserable? If so then it's a learned behavior since I know of no babies born "naturally" miserable. Maybe it's the people he is around?
2006-11-25 21:28:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, are you harsh on him, denying things he desperately wants, or use harsh words? Toddlers require attention and, as we say, esteem-boosters. You should give him treats once in a while, but don't spoil him! If it still doesn't work, he might have a condition, so take him to see a pediatrician.
2006-11-25 19:54:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean miserable as in upset or misbehaving?
2006-11-25 19:53:32 · answer #7 · answered by pro_cheese93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend more time with your child. Remember, YOU are the parent and he is the child.
2006-11-25 20:00:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him non miserable
2006-11-29 18:44:34 · answer #9 · answered by benchertok700 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to his doctor. There may be something wrong with him.
2006-11-25 19:53:28 · answer #10 · answered by Jester 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋