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o.k i hate my family and want to run away someone give me some tips plz.

2006-11-25 11:44:16 · 18 answers · asked by kayk221 1 in Family & Relationships Family

o.k 14 going on 15 but my dad yells and yells and they try to changr who i am and is alays up my butt

2006-11-25 11:56:06 · update #1

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Unless you live in a home where you are being physically or sexually abused, stay home and work out whatever problem exists between you and your parents. If there is abuse report it to a school or church counselor and they are required to notify the police and help you to get out of the situation. If this is because you are upset about being grounded or something like that stay home and work things out. It is a dangerous world out on the street.

2006-11-25 12:30:40 · answer #1 · answered by Country girl 7 · 0 0

DONT DO IT!!! trust me i have done it soooo many times... i have gotten as far as going from MA 2 NY in a bus and i was only 11...but when u get 2 were ever u r trying 2 get 2 u start thinking well what now? were am i going 2 live? were am i going 2 get food? stuff like that.... running away dosnt help... another time i tried was actully i few weeks ago... my dad was yelling at me 24/7 and so was my mom and she hit me like a million times even tho i hadnt done anything and i rlly wanted 2 run away so i did i walked down the street got on a train and left but rlly what r u going 2 do when u get there? running away isnt going 2 help the probem and if there is nothing u can do about the problem then just wait... u have 4 more years left b4 u can get out of there ITS ONLY 4 MORE YEARS DEAL WITH IT!!! but running away rlly isnt the answer...
if ur rlly serious about running away and ur ganna do it anyway then... make a rlly rlly rlly good plan about were ur going 2 go, how u r ganna get food, and what about school? ya need 2 go 2 school...plan it out rlly well, save money, think about who u r ganna live with stuff like that

2006-11-25 21:23:11 · answer #2 · answered by ... 6 · 0 0

Don't run away! That won't solve anything. Do you have a job, money, apartment, car, food, heat, electric, phone, cable....should I go on? I think your family may just be getting on your nerves right now. Everyone's parents yelled at them at some point, everyone at some point thought their family was trying to change them, you're not the first to go through this. If it's that bad, call another family member, but don't run away. If you're being ABUSED, then call your local child services department, BUT ONLY IF YOU REALLY BEING ABUSED!!!!! If you call them and make a false report, they may, depending on where you live, be in your life until you're 18, investigating you and your family, and that is NOT fun.

2006-11-25 20:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by Alishia 2 · 0 0

Running away isn't going to solve anything, believe me I know this from my own experience. It hurts you and your loved ones. Talk to an adult at school, a friends parent, or even someone at church to help you and your parents to talk things out and to learn to deal with the problems you're having. I'm not saying you have to go to social services or the police, just find someone that can be there for you and your parents to talk things out with and help you all find some comparmise in the family. At your age you can't get a job, a place to live, you won't have food or money or shelter. Things could be alot worst than you think they are. We all thought our parents were mean and wouldn't let us do things when we were your age, but believe me out on the street as a runaway is not the way to go. You struggle to have food and a place to sleep, and your parents don't want that for you and neither do you. Just try to talk to them. And find someone who can help the whole family to talk things out with, just don't run away.

2006-11-25 20:56:58 · answer #4 · answered by kayren s 1 · 1 0

Living on the streets is one of the most cruel and difficult environments there is. Firstly, unless there's abuse, don't give up on your family. Ask a school counsellor, social worker, or clergyperson what options you have available. They have extensive ties with the local social system which can help support you at home or away from home if need be and can also provide advice and counselling.

2006-11-25 19:55:56 · answer #5 · answered by Cybele 1 · 1 0

Coming from someone who ran away when she was 13 don't do it you never know where you are going to sleep, what you are going to eat, i was almost rapped twice and i can tell no matter how hard you think your parents are on you it is not worth it they love you and only want what is best for you. i now know this but it is to late i wish i could go back and not do it all the stuff i thought they were putting me through was NOTHING compared to all the hardships i faced on the streets. So plz don't do it.

2006-11-25 20:08:43 · answer #6 · answered by SanDee 2 · 1 0

we all pass in such things in ur age...u like ur family and everything..but the problem in that age is that the comportment changes..for this reason ur parents yell..
when i was 15 years old, i hated this age a s i hated my parents... but after few years i realized they r more matuire and they had the right to be mad on me coz i was not enough mature..now im living a perfect life

do not ever run away.. ur parents love u.. if u run away, u'll feel worst later

i had this experience so plz do not do it

2006-11-26 07:45:08 · answer #7 · answered by mel 1 · 0 0

That would be stupid. How old are you? It is possible to petition the state to become an emancipated minor depending on your age. You would then become a self-supporting adult in the eyes of the state and you can get financial aid for college under your own income only. Do you feel ready to rent your own apartment and get a job?

2006-11-25 19:46:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

ok make sure you have money! make sure oyu have clothes, and make sure you have shelter, food etc
Make sure when you do run away that when you call someone do not stay on the phone 4 more than a couple of seconds.
if u have a place to go make sur eyou don't hitch hike, a couple reason y not 2: they could take you, they may tell your parents, may take you back 2 ur parents.
And most of all y r u runnning away

2006-11-25 19:47:22 · answer #9 · answered by kris 2 · 0 0

Oh u sound just like I did when I was your age.So let me tell u what I did.I moved out and got a job and found out I couldn't make it on my own without a college education.Plus I realized that they did my laundry,fixed my meals,and gave me money when I needed it. You need to talk to them when your not angry.Discuss with your parents in a mature attitude what is bothering u.If you can't do that then u certainly can't live on your own or take care of yourself. I wish u all the luck.You need to compromise with them.Meet them half way. Email me anytime.

2006-11-25 20:03:01 · answer #10 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 1 0

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