Ex boyfriend advice?

Question

My ex-boyfriend just recently broke up with me, and know he is spreading lies about me. Does anyone have some advice on how to deal with it?

Answer 1

He's only doing it because he's angry about the break up and being an immature little boy. I would say ignore it, but if it gets to a point where you can't take it anymore, here's what I would do: think of something really embarrassing that would make him feel like total crap, and wait until you have all of his friends (and a lot of people around in public), then just blast him with it. He'll be so embarassed that he'll run away like a little dog with his tail in between his legs and he will definitely stop.

Answer 2

In a way he did call you...he called a radio station to play a song for you! He may still need his time, so don't presure him but you should let him know that your friend heard the song and your feelings about it -- if you thought it was sweet, if it you liked that he did that. You can also tell him if you want to be friends again (every boyfriend/girlfriend are friends during their relationship whether it began as friends and grew to dating or they just met and started dated and became friends) or miss taking to him/seeing him. Don't get overly mushy or emotional, just express a desire to have the lines of comunication open. I hope this helps. Good luck.

Answer 3

i had this same problem once, it was tough but the best thing to do is find out why he is spreading rumors. Men can be idiots I broke up with a guy and he was telling people all kinds of lies. It really got to me but I just tried to avoid what was being said. Don't stoop down to his level, just hold your head high and don't let it get to you.

Answer 4

well your question really doesn't cover the very important reason and thats why you two broke up. but anyways this is what am saying maybe whatever lead to you broke up weather its your fault or his, lets say its his fault maybe he knows you did you wrong and he feels bad about it but instead of making it better he makes it worse and that might be the cause of that its people that do that when they know there wrong especial boys there pride want let them do the right thing. so i that could be the case but to anwer the other part is that you should say he is in titled to his own oppion and he is very wrong and he needs to grow up and be a man. and also says what kinda guy goes around gosipping like a woman. am sure that will eat at him lol

Answer 5

First ask him not to do this, if he continues then ask a man to have a talk with him and if that doesn't work then set him up for some public humiliation, do a real good job and he will lay low and out of sight. Or you can always ignore him. Good luck.

Answer 6

If the lies are not true then jsut say 2 can play this game and then jus do the same back

Answer 7

blow it off. your too good to stoop down to his level. just move on believe me i had so many ex bf troubles i could write a book. hes just immature and wants to make you mad.make him mead by getting with another guy (who will treat you right) , change your look alittle maybe just style your hair a different way anything small. to let him no you don't need him and you've moved on. because you don't need a guy who's just going to bring you down. good luck. always be your self. I'm here if you need me. feel free to email me.

Answer 8

Ignore it. His lie telling reflects much worse on him. And the people who know you will know that he is lying and your friends will continue to support you.

As they say...This too shall pass!

Answer 9

remember he's your ex , if he's lieing as you say just be yourself and all will work out in time, just keep moving on