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I'VE BEEN WITH MY BOYFRIEND FOR 5 YEARS NOW AND WE ARE TOTALLY THE OPPOSITE. I DONT KNOW HOW I FEEL ABOUT HIM ANYMORE I THINK ITS MORE ME BEING USED TO HIM THAN ANYTHING ELSE. HIM AND HIS FRIENDS ALL GREW UP TOGETHER. IVE KNOWN HIS FRIEND EVER SINCE I'VE KNOWN MY BOYFRIEND CAUSE WE *ALWAYS* HANG OUT TOGETHER (A GROUP OF US) AND I FEEL THAT ME AND HIM ARE THE EXACT SAME PERSON. IT MIGHT SOUND STUPID TO SAY BUT I BELIEVE THAT IN THIS CASE WE MIGHT BE SOULMATES. WE LITERALLY COMPLETE EACHOTHER'S THOUGHTS. I HAVE A FEELING THAT HE FEELS THE SAME WAY. WHAT WILL EVERYONE THINK? ALL THEIR FRIENDS, FAMILY. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO.

2006-11-25 11:41:42 · 5 answers · asked by marielita65 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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this is a tough one to answer, because there are more people to think about other than just yourself. but you should not stay with your boyfriend if you don't want to be with him any more, you need to stop leading him on. the longer you put it off the harder it is going to be for everyone. one thing for sure you and the other guy need to wait a while before hooking up. it could be just a faze since y'all are around each other alot. break it off with your boyfriend and then just wait and see how things play out. good luck and GOD BLESS YOU! you should always pray about things cause GOD can answer your ?'s better than anyone else can. just remember that he may not answer right away and you have to really open your heart to the lord to even hear his answer.

2006-11-25 11:54:03 · answer #1 · answered by toots2000 4 · 0 0

girl, i being through this situation. i use to go out with this boy. i was starting not to like him cuz he was a jerk. i use to always for some reason talk to his one friend. i use to feel comfortable with him i use to miss him. but i didn't know why. then the boy got lock up and i use to always be with his friend up and down, just as friends (with other people not just us) then one day when i was about to say bye i tap kissed him. then i left. few days after he ask me for a kiss and i said lets talk first. that is when we realized that we where really falling 4 each other. we said it will be mess up for me to go out with him after being with his friend. but our love was stronger then that. so when he came out we told him that me and his friend felt in love and ever since we been together. they were not kool friends anymore but they stayed friends. the 1st year we kept on the low CuZ u know people be talking, but i am glad we desided to fight for us. So what i am saying is that go with ur heart. u never know.God bless u. i wish u the best.also make sure he love u back and that u do love him .

2006-11-25 20:00:17 · answer #2 · answered by sweet angel 2 · 1 0

hmm... toughy!! my advise, act like a friend. if he mentions anything, then mention something. you don't want to be the bad girl and cheat on your boyfriend. you don't mention if you still want to be with your boyfriend anymore. if you don't, break up with him and state that you still want to be friends. the only thing... really mean what you say. as for your "soulmate," like the saying goes... "que sera, sera."
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good luck!

2006-11-25 19:46:25 · answer #3 · answered by Adrianne 1 · 0 0

It's your life and your happiness we're talking about here. So, do what you gotta do and don't worry about what others think.

2006-11-25 19:45:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

cheet by sleeping with your boyfriends friend

2006-11-25 19:46:01 · answer #5 · answered by shalvin 1 · 0 0

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