he says he loves me
then he says he doesnt
he says he likes me more than his date
then he asks her to be in a relationship (right after ONE date), RIGHT after he finds out that i got in one
he tells me he doesn't have time for me anymore bc his new girlfriend
then when i agree that we should stop seeing eachother, he wants to see me fri
he doesn't contact me at all when i don't contact him, but then puts a post up that he's suddenly depressed (after i stop seeing him).he never does this
then i have dinner with him and he says he missed me sooo much and give me a fierce hug, can't stop staring, and afterwards, we hang out with a mutual friend. during this time, he calls me every former petname he can muster, and asks "remember when [insert memory from past relationship]?" making the 3rd party feel awkward/left out
then i send him a heartfelt letter telling him my feelings and asking him straight out to tell me his
he never answers
he calls after 2 days
i call back
no response for 4 days
2006-11-25 11:05:50 · 8 answers · asked by n0ir_c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No offense but hes probably playing you out or for a boote call.
2006-11-25 11:08:13 · answer #1 · answered by Shearson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is either on drugs, really, really messed up in the head, but probably not really in love with you. He probably does the same thing with several other women - that's why he doesn't have time to get back to you right away. Maybe he's driven by lust and not relationship. Maybe there are certain things he can get from you and not other women and certain things he gets from them that he doesn't get for you. Sounds like a guy who needs to take a step back from relationships before he hurts alot more people. This guy is not worth your time - you should do something drastic in not contacting him for a long time and then see what happens. He's totally playing on your emotions and and enjoying every minute of it. Why are you giving him the pleasure - stand up for yourself as a woman - be strong and find someone who will treat you better than this!
2006-11-25 11:12:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to have lunch with you. Just the two of you. And ask him straight out. What's going on. Does he love you? Does he want to be with you? It's the only way. Good Luck.
2006-11-25 11:09:11 · answer #3 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want you but he doesn't want you to get on with your life. He's enjoying stringing you along but he has no intention of getting back with you. My question is WHY ON EARTH ARE YOU STILL SEEING HIM? TALKING TO HIM? WRITING TO HIM? He's not worth it and he's keeping you from having a good life. STAY AWAY from him! He just likes controlling you and playing with your emotions.
2006-11-25 11:11:32 · answer #4 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this guy is completely confused. I'd stay away from him until he's mature enough to deal with his feelings.
2006-11-25 11:08:29 · answer #5 · answered by nw_big_skies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is going from one girl to another. He isn;t sure what he wants. Be careful that you don't get hurt by him.
2006-11-25 11:12:20 · answer #6 · answered by danobain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. He will be nothing but heart ache
2006-11-25 11:09:15 · answer #7 · answered by Izzy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
x s are x s for a reason
2006-11-25 11:17:59 · answer #8 · answered by stonedhilbily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋