Sometimes l think he hates me like everyone else. So l don't bother. Do you think l should stay shy and worry about it, or go ahead and see if he likes me? I am very shy and afraid! Please don't answer this question, just to get points! lt's just not fair! And please give real advise, I really need to do this. Thank you for answering!
2006-11-25 10:37:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shyness is a big blockade in the formation in relationships. for all you know he likes u the u like him. get to know him better. once u r friends, he might drop hints that he is interested. but if he doesn't don't worry u will have a new friend.....u win both ways.....
good luck!
:)
2006-11-25 10:40:47 · answer #1 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you think he hates you like everyone else??? That statement to me means you might be a little insecure. If you do like him talk to him first to gain friendship from him and trust....See if he is receptive to this.......Do you know what happens if you don;t try...Nothing at all but you thinking to yourself what might have been....At least if you try that means you would also break some of the shy barrier so either way you win...good luck
2006-11-25 18:44:07 · answer #2 · answered by chazz007s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta get the courage to break the ice and talk to him. I like an extremely shy gal named Joanne and she is just like you, really shy so i made the first move by asking her friends to introduce me to her. I think you should do the same.
2006-11-25 18:39:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
good grief girl why do you think everyone hates you ? you have very little or no self esteem, you need to think positively about yourself if there are things about yourself you dont like work on changing those things but its hard to get people to like you when you apparently dont like yourself. i am not trying to be mean and i dont mean it in a sarcastic way but you really do need to work on the way you feel about yourself and when that changes every ones opinion will change too.
2006-11-25 19:03:36 · answer #4 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't stay shy, go ahead and ask him out, there's only one of two words he can say,or he will try to make a story up. but if he says no, then get over him, there aways more guys out there.
2006-11-25 18:42:14 · answer #5 · answered by jes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first way to get any one to like you is to start liking yourself. Once you come to terms with who you are and start listing your good points - and don't say you don't have any 'cos everyone has something positive about them - your self confidence will grow. When that happens you won't ever have to tell a lad you like him 'cos they'll be telling you that they like you....believe in yourself girl!! Good luck.
2006-11-25 18:40:42 · answer #6 · answered by Sue S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ONLY way to overcome shyness is to do the very thing you fear to do. You are shy because you fear looking foolish in certain social situations, but if you force yourself to be in these situations, your shyness will diminish.
I say, talk to the boy. Swallow your fear and do it. Good luck.
2006-11-25 18:41:01 · answer #7 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write him a letter. tell him that you think he is cute and would like to talk to him as a friend. you could come off to strong by saying girlfriend he might think you are some stalker.
2006-11-25 18:51:06 · answer #8 · answered by Andrea L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK
well
first you have to get to know him
and kinda hang out with a little
get him to NOTICE you!!!!
flirt w/ him a little see if he flirts back!!
then go in for it
2006-11-25 18:43:43 · answer #9 · answered by *CoNfUSiNg* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to stop being so negative about yourself and do new things stop being shy talk to him more be yourself that part that isnt shy and take chances. . .remember honey you only live once. . .make that time your living worth it. . .take chances<3
2006-11-25 18:40:05 · answer #10 · answered by lovers<3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋