My dad died in a motorcycle crash 1 month ago and I had my baby 3 weeks ago. I love my baby and i take good care of her I just can't seem to get any motivation to do anything. When I go to my 6 week check up do you think I should ask my doc to put me on some kind of anti depressant? She knows my situation I'm just not sure how to ask her for some medication. Serious feedback only please, my situation is desperate.
2006-11-25 10:35:04 · 13 answers · asked by jrichardson65803 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
it would b best to talk to her, tell her ur not comfy with taking care of ur baby feeling so bad, cuz even if u dont realize it u may b able to take better care of ur baby if u were happier. tell her ur interested in antidepressants to make u feel better so u can take care of ur baby without feeling run down or sad. she'll understand, ur not the only person with this kinda problem im sure
2006-11-25 10:40:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come right out and ask her or let her know that you have serious concerns about having post partum depression. She is a professional and will be able to advise you. She will know what the best course of action is in regards to breastfeeding. Maybe you shouldn't wait for the 6 week check up. Go next week.
2006-11-25 18:42:51 · answer #2 · answered by ktlou l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bless your heart. The first few months after having a baby are really rough and to add the death of a parent on top of that you must feel just miserable. I would contact your ob and tell her how you are feeling and ask for an anti depressant that can help you get over his hump. Don't feel ashamed alot of new mothers feel this way not to mention your grief. What you are going Thur is normal and the sooner you get help the sooner you can begin to enjoy your new baby. Good luck.
2006-11-25 18:49:12 · answer #3 · answered by GI 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look into it. If other people think you are down, then
you probably are. It can't hurt too much to try something, and being able to talk about it is a great
first step to get going. Just be careful with any meds.
If you don't get out of the funk, you'll be troubled later
wondering if you caused your young child any problems. Not trying to be mean, but I've seen it happen.
2006-11-25 18:42:52 · answer #4 · answered by farmer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are feeling depressed, or lacking motivation, you may not want to wait until your six week checkup.
You may want to see your doctor sooner or talk to her to see if there is a Psychiatrist she will refer you to. You may also want to see a therapist to talk through your feelings of loss from your Dad dying. (I am sorry to hear that by the way)
You have a lot going on right now. It is very important to take care of yourself for you, your baby, and the rest of your family.
Good luck, I hope this helps.
2006-11-25 18:39:59 · answer #5 · answered by happytone365 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOD, dont get on a prescription drug - before a woman gets pregnant, she goes after the human male that she feels can offer the most security for her and a future baby, when she gets pregnant, her hormones change and she even is repulsed by the males pheromones, wanting familiar company to deliver her baby around (immediate family that has the same biological "scent), after delivery her hormones change back to the way they were before pregnancy - you appear to be in the middle of that, your body will balance out in a few months (for gods sake, dont have someone tell you that you need a legal drug, approved for mass distribution by the government in order for you to be "normal", what you are feeling IS normal - TIME,TIME,TIME
2006-11-25 18:42:58 · answer #6 · answered by hell oh 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, by all means, go over your symptoms with your doctor. You might want to check with a therapist in your area as well. Here's a site where you can look for some help: http://therapists.psychologytoday.com/ppc/prof_search.php?iorb=4764
Good luck. Hope you do well.
2006-11-25 18:44:51 · answer #7 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for your loss. My condolences
you're probably experiencing normal depression, but don't think about it too much! if you think you have something, it might become like something you obsess about it. At the check-up you should feel free to ask away, there's no need to have any qualms about it
2006-11-25 18:39:34 · answer #8 · answered by MrPotatoHead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beside your tragedy, you may be feeling weak and tired due to an anemia that is common after childbirth. Your doctor may do lab work to rule that out. I am sorry for your loss. Take care.
2006-11-25 18:44:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-26 09:57:02 · answer #10 · answered by LIz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋