The thing is that she cheated on me on my birhthday, and now that guy dumped her. It's been nearly two months, now she's hinting that she wan't me back. How do I break it to her That I've found someone else? ya at first I did want her back but now it's like I don't. I told her that I wouldn't be there when she falls, now she act's like nothing happend between us. She did somethings and so did I we can't change it How do I tell we can't be friends? friendship never works out after a breakup, What advice can you Give?
2006-11-25 10:24:42 · 16 answers · asked by Gilly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HAHA "BREAK IT TO HER"?!
Shove it in her face!!
She sounds like a worthless person who deserves to be alone untill she can get her act togeather.
Tell her strait up "im sorry that your not doing well but I want nothing to do with you, im happy in a realationship and i dont need you calling me ever again. Have a nice life"
That should do it, if not get a restraining order
2006-11-25 10:29:40 · answer #1 · answered by Low 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a FOOL if you respond to your ex's pleas for attention nothing to speak of how your current girlfriend would feel if she found out that you went to your ex.Your ex cheated on you NOT TO MENTION ON YOUR BIRTHDAY NO LESS and now she has nobody so she will take whatever she can get when it comes to someone to be with her.CLOSE THE BOOK ON THAT CHAPTER IN YOUR LIFE AND ENJOY YOUR CURRENT LADY.You should buy her something nice or take her out for a romantic evening for even thinking about going to your ex's side and if she asks why you are doing such things just look into her eyes and tell her how much she means to you.
2006-11-25 10:34:34 · answer #2 · answered by hjbergel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some friendships do work after break ups b/c my ex cheated on me and broke up with me and tried to get back with me twice and now I go out with his best friend and he's one of my best friends now and you just have to tell her there's nothing there between you two anymore and there's someone else that you like and if she cares about you and your feelings then she'll understand and let you be with the other girl.
2006-11-25 10:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by monkey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are not lovers anymore, doesn't mean you can't be friends, if you still care about her you can show her you were the bigger person, visit her in hospital and be nice, but do not lead her on, let her see what she let go of and what she lost, maybe introduce her to your new friend, she knows she screwed up and life will go on.
2006-11-25 10:31:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you doing on Yahoo solutions asking this question?! you ought to were rushing to the well being facility! move go on your boyfriend good now, and if all people asks why, say something alongside the traces of you nonetheless worrying about him. they are going to understand. Now move see him, you may not have a lot time left!
2016-11-26 22:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her the way you feel , If you don't think you could be friends with her then just tell her . I know from experience that you can still be friends with someone after you break up with them . Good Luck
2006-11-25 10:32:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u love her back if the first thing u should ask herself. cuz if u dont u hav no reason to pity her. she broke up wit u end of story. u found some1 now and she wants u becuz she just feels like she needs some1. keep some distance between u and her and sooner or later shell find some1 else. or u can break it up to her by bringing ur new grlfriend to her and tat will make her realize wat shes done to deserve this.
2006-11-25 10:29:06 · answer #7 · answered by FullMoon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to carefully break anything to her. She is using the hospital thing to guilt you back into her power. Ask your new girlfriend what SHE wants you to do. Treat your new girlfriend with the love and respect she deserves, and don't let guilt or fear determine your actions with your X. She does not respect you, so let it go. Invest yourself in your new relationship! You both deserve the best.
2006-11-25 10:29:32 · answer #8 · answered by sixgun 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea..its harsh, friendship doesnt work out if there are still feelings from either side...but if thats the way u feel then just tell her..why is it so difficult to speak about it? dont make her guess cauz she might guess wrong
2006-11-25 10:32:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you've moved on with your life and are happy- and wish her the same. And then stop taking her calls.
2006-11-25 10:28:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋