EX) my friend got her feeling hurt by a guy cuz she wwas fat
2006-11-25 10:23:57 · 35 answers · asked by j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no....and that is really sad, because in our society we are ashamed to be seen with a fat chick....sad, but true....I personally like being around them because the have lots of personality and so much fun to be with! my Parents always told me never to judge ppl by the way there look....I rather have someone around me with a little meat on them, then some shallow nitwit...lol
2006-11-25 10:26:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Depends what you mean by fat?
Some of the most attractive women are pretty curvacious but how they dress can disguise their real weight anyway. Nigella Lawson is very beautiful but is naturally quite large and so is beyonce but they dress in a way to minimize their weight.
Many men go crazy over larger women but especially thinner men and don't quite know why this is?.
Is fat a size 16-18 or a size 22-28?. Not all larger women are the same size and fat can be fatter on some women than others. Look at Kirsty Alley and Kate Winslet - whoes fat is the most attractive or less to all men? - I don't quite know what being fat is when women start from a size 8 upwards, so when you get to a 14, you are then fat?.
I am curvy but not large at all and hour-glass shaped and size 16 but have a small frame, a thin waist, large boobs, bigger hips and so never really look large unless I am wearing clothes that make me look bigger than I am - but I am not fat and have lots of male attention. Yet, some women my size, are fat all over and don't have a waist or slim legs! - so I cannot understand what is meant by fat when it is variable to each woman.
I know a lot of men don't like skinny women who are boney and many would prefer a large woman than a skinny one. don't know if I have answered your queston?
2006-11-25 10:40:49 · answer #2 · answered by Shikira-trudi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy. I'm a bit overweight(Size 4) not that much though. I do know that at my school some of the guys do go out with the larger girls and some go out with the skinny model girls. Usually the nice guys don't care about physical features but all the mean/popular guys care about physical features they dont' care about what's inside which really bugs me... Good luck and tell your friend that it doesn't matter what the guy said they're just words and don't listen to him just because one guy said it doesn't mean that every guy thinks that way...
2006-11-25 10:33:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like confidence. I am not the smallest person in the world (size 16), but I don't have any trouble. Tell her to be herself. Rejection hurts like a m'fer, but she will be learn how to handle herself with guys a whole lot faster than most girls.
2006-11-25 10:32:52 · answer #4 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whether some people prefers thin girls over not so thin girls dosent take away from it being incredibly screwed up to be rude about someones weight. Some prefer thin,myscular and heavier. I know a few people personallly who only like big women,some being very big. They think even chubby girls are too skinny. Others like one of my brothers likes rail thin girls with few curves. It really does vary.
2006-11-25 10:27:35 · answer #5 · answered by TrofyWife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some guys are mean others are not. Some guys don't like fat girls others do. Some just don't care and only care about the personality.
2006-11-25 10:26:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anthony 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the guy. Some do and some don't. Some prefer women that "take care of themselves" to those who are a little bit more chunky.
2006-11-25 10:25:41 · answer #7 · answered by chrstnwrtr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are helping your friend by refering to her as "fat", you should be there to support her not add to her hurt feelings. Yes, there are guys out there who like bigger girls, they accept them for who they are on the inside and think they are beautiful both on the inside and the outside.
2006-11-25 10:40:54 · answer #8 · answered by sweetgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, REAL MEN like larger women....its the shallow assholes that have a problem with them....and these pathetic excuses for men dont deserve a woman anyway....if your friend is really overweight though, i would recomend encouraging her to try to lose weight....but not for the men...for her own health. :-)
2006-11-25 10:30:15 · answer #9 · answered by ~JusLivinLife~ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm fat and i'vehad lots of boyfreinds....i think that if you carry yourfelf well, speak like you have some brains, and never , never, say things like, oh i'm so fat ,ineed to diet, or i don't know why you like me cuz i'm over weight, you could get anybody...don't ever put your self down...love your self and other people will love you too11111111111111111
2006-11-25 12:05:19 · answer #10 · answered by pollyanna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋