Please don't say I'm racist. But Asian guys everywhere complain that white girls don't like them. But the question is... do Asian guys LIKE white girls? I mean I'm white and I like Asian guys, so I want to know. I mean after going here: bitterasianmen.com I just want to know. Thanks.
2006-11-25 10:12:36 · 17 answers · asked by Laura 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi Laura
I'm a 22 yr old Asian man. I live with my gorgeous girlfriend (Caucasian) whom I've known since HS and we're expecting our first child together. I know the AM and WF relationships aren't as common as other interracial couples but they exist. The guys who complain need to realize that their problems with women isn't only related to Caucasian women but with all women if they keep up that attitude.
Everyone has their preference and if someone doesn't like you, so what? Move on and find someone else. From my experience, when it comes to Asian guys, most women are generally receptive and even curious because they haven't really had much personal experience. So Asian guys can use this to their advantage or sulk back in defeat because of low self-confidence or whatnot.
All in all, I don't think it's good to generalize people because of their color, I believe that we're all individuals and everyone behaves and thinks in a different way. As for your question, yes, Asian men find Caucasian women or any other women for that matter, attractive. If you are interested in a guy, go up to him and start a conversation because he may not be aware of your interest! Asian men are usually more reserved, polite. It's a cultural thing. But some guys like me are more outspoken, lol.
Good Luck!
2006-11-25 10:28:14 · answer #1 · answered by CAL07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guess I’m on the wrong side of the fence but yes I think Asian men like white women. The problem is a lot of Asian guys are not as tall as the white guys and women tend not to like shorter men.
2006-11-25 10:18:10 · answer #2 · answered by Merrily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol @ bitterasianmen.com I'm sorry, but no harm to the bitter, but I didn't know they had such websites. Then again....
As for your question, I'm pretty sure they do. Many males, be they Asian, Indian, African, or otherwise, who come to this country have been positively influenced by western media as to the many positives one would experience from dating a white woman. On the otherhand, the media has degraded the African American woman so much that to eDven think of her in a positive light wou?have done so and many are still doing so.
Also, many Asian men do not approach white women or any other woman outside of their ethnic group because it is frowned upon in their culture. However, many 2nd and 3rd generation Asian Americans are finding that they are pursuing their desires no matter if it is against the wishes of their ancestors.
White women have always been seen as the Forbidden Fruit, a sexual Taboo to many ethnic groups. Take the story of Emit Till, a 14 year old African American boy from Chicago who was found dead at the bottom of a river wired to a factory fan. He had been beaten and shot in the head for apparently whistling at a white woman.
Caucasian traits are desired by many ethnic groups. Asian women are pursuing plastic surgery to create prominant eyelids, women from India are wearing blue eye contacts because they find their true brown eye color unappealing, African American women continually straighten their hair and dye it an unatural blonde, and many African women are bleaching their skin to get it as light as they possibly can, even at the risk of deformity and death. Why? Because they feel their men find it more desirable and in turn they will feel more valuable as human beings.
So yes, Asian men more than likely desire white women just as men from many other ethnic groups do. If a man's desire for a women is truly genuine and not just based on the way she looks or her ethnicity, then I find nothing wrong with any man desiring any woman he so chooses.
2006-11-25 10:42:01 · answer #3 · answered by ladyshua 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IM asian and i like white girls, but not in the romantic type of way coz, srry if im being mean but, whites are too hyper for asians. Plz dont report me. Another reason is that, asians share the same interests and language.
2006-11-25 10:16:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL good question I am curious to see what kind of answers you get.... personally i don't know, I had a half Japanese half Mexican boyfriend one time but you don't see to many Asian guys with white gf.... maybe it's a cultural thing.
2006-11-25 10:16:33 · answer #5 · answered by natmarie25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, its just uncommon to see asn asian guy with a white girl. it just depends on the guy, all of them are different.
its more common to see an asian girl with a white guy, and it seems weird to see it the other way around
2006-11-25 10:15:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i understand completely. I live in Hawaii and i'm half white and half filipino, so alot of asian guys here are like "I don't date white girls only local girls", but some don't care, as long as they think your beautiful inside and out.i dated an asian guy he was filipino and japanese...and an idiot but you know, asians are just like everyone else.
2006-11-25 10:16:10 · answer #7 · answered by Baby I'll stay, heaven can w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know plenty of Asian guys who date white girls, and marry white girls, so!! ??
2006-11-25 10:15:59 · answer #8 · answered by Emma B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I must guess. They like white girls, but they usually choose asian girls because of the common in ethic.
2006-11-25 10:14:30 · answer #9 · answered by popcorn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes they do, my dad is asian and my mom is white.
2006-11-25 10:16:16 · answer #10 · answered by Dawn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋