I've been with my boyfriend for a few months now(5) and we haven't been talking as much as we used to. It's harder cause we have a long distance relationship and he is in the military, but currently is not deployed or anything. I've been JUST talking with this other guy now for past few weeks for like 3-4 hours every night. Should I tell my boyfriend? Do you think this is cheating
? Guys what do you think?
2006-11-25 10:09:04 · 12 answers · asked by linz8100 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you're interested in this other person, so it probably will lead to cheating. You aren't being honest with him or yourself right now.
2006-11-25 10:12:41 · answer #1 · answered by Retrodvs 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I feel that this is cheating, I have been seeing my girlfriend for approx. 6 months. Last month I walked by her computer and noticed she was inviting a guy to stop by and visit her at work. I was heartbroken, later on I asked her if everything was ok between us, and if there was anything she wanted to talk about or tell me, to my surprize she said no. I confronted her later and all she said was sorry. One month has gone by and I am still upset about this and I can't even make eye contact with her and she can't firgure out why. I feel this relationship is over. You should at least be honest with your boyfriend, I know I would respect that
2006-11-25 10:30:35 · answer #2 · answered by fasteddie762001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would it make you feel better to know he is cheating on you, since you are cheating on him? Of course you should tell him the truth so he can move on with his life and not expect to be with you. Or think that he has a women when in fact you could not wait a few months or weeks for him. Very sad. Honesty is always the best! God bless****
2006-11-25 10:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is really really bad...you have 2 choices
1. STOP don't talk to the guy ever again tell him you feel like your betraying your boyfriend's trust, he should understand if not he is CRAZY and you should block his number.
2. Date the other guy and say Goodbye to your boyfriend because it sounds to me like your having an emotional affair with this guy anyway.
Trust me this is how i got a girlfriend a few years ago she was dating some otter guy and we talked on the phone for hours until she figured out that i was the better catch and dumbed her boyfriend ( and i never asked her to ) , in the end tho it didn't work out because i was just using her for attention, entertainment.
My advice stay with your boyfriend don't be stupid.
2006-11-25 10:19:33 · answer #4 · answered by Low 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
3-4 hours every night? That's ridiculous. Of course you're cheating. If not physically, then certainly emotionally. Do your man a favor and break up with him. He deserves better.
2006-11-25 10:14:16 · answer #5 · answered by Stretchy McSlapNuts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u're not cheatin on any1 cause jus talkin(i hope) but u should tell ur boyfriend bout this new friend u met but jus not the times a night u spend talkin 2 him
2006-11-25 10:13:15 · answer #6 · answered by candy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i have cheated many guys and now married to a man who is simple and decnt so i guess cheating doesnt matter call@9860725525 smital chajjed..and lets have fun
2014-04-15 18:20:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell yor boyfriend... Show a bit of dignity, and don' let it get out of hand.
2006-11-25 10:11:41 · answer #8 · answered by StreetPunk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, IT IS CHEATING! He isn't your boyfriend. either break up with your boyfriend or stop cheating on him!
2006-11-25 10:15:56 · answer #9 · answered by Jim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't mind him, also talking to girls to be fair about the situation!
and if you don't mind, maybe you need a new bf!
2006-11-25 10:17:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋