Theres this extremely shy gal that i like and most of her friends are helpin me to talk to her. The only thing is, she loves to study and she doesnt even hang out during the weekends. WTF!. How can i make her understand that theres more to highschool, than just studying? PLZ DONT TELL ME TO HIT THE BOOKS, COZ I DO K.
2006-11-25 10:00:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She grade 11. loves anime and i hang out wit her and her friends.
Me grade12. shes soo shy that she doesnt even say hi to me at the hallways.
2006-11-25 10:01:17 · update #1
I even study in the library wit her lol.
2006-11-25 10:03:06 · update #2
More than likely, it's her parents that has her under these strict all study no fun habit. I'm sure she would love to be an average teenager. I, at one time wasn't able to hang out and do things my friends did. And my way of coping, was pretty much convincing myself and others I rather stay at home ect.
If you really like this girl-I would suggest you talk to her friends and see if they can give her the courage to step up to her parents and at least hang out on the weekends.
For now, you just have to take a back seat-because she has to crawl before she learns to walk. And if you like her so much-you'll wait around.
2006-11-25 10:11:29 · answer #1 · answered by ladyjo 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you should ask her to tutor you and help you with school. However if you would not like to do that why dont you just ask her out on a date.. if she says she needs to study then why dont u invite her over your house to study with her or to the library to study... maybe she'll start to have an intrest in you and back away a little bit from the studying.
2006-11-25 18:07:23 · answer #2 · answered by Becca 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats so sweet :) Hmm... maybe you can help her study or help her at something she is bad in??? If she get to know you i am sure she wont be shy anymore, just take it one step at the time, and i ams ure things will work out. Find out what she is interested in besides books and study and just start a conversation!
2006-11-25 18:06:05 · answer #3 · answered by Simone 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask her about herself spend time when she is hitting the books and get to know what she likes to do, introduce her to new things. If she like the books that her to a museum or somewhere where she can be cool with you.
2006-11-25 18:05:32 · answer #4 · answered by Ankit 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow a love story like mine .
My love story is same as you . I was a quiet girl and never hang out like others in my school .
I think you should tell the girl , you love her , and it gonna work , I am sure .
My bf did this , so I loves him secretly . After he proposed me I went out with him .
So I guess you shuold tell the girl .
2006-11-25 18:14:50 · answer #5 · answered by Tithi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first you have to talk to her who knows she may like to go out also, get to know the person first then make judgement or she may not be ready for a relationship, she wants to focus on her school work for now and there is nothing wrong with that so you just have to be patient or move on.
2006-11-25 18:06:30 · answer #6 · answered by jdukenumber1 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hand her your phone number or email address. and see if that will work! Just do not come on too strong, just general conversation at first, since she likes school, then that is what you talk about.
2006-11-25 18:08:07 · answer #7 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why not just leave the poor girl alone already?
She's obviously isn't into you, and maybe she doesn't WANT to date right now.
Show her some consideration. Geez!
Instead of being such a self-absorbed, self-centered, inconsiderate jackazz, you could try leaving her alone.
2006-11-25 18:04:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
shy gurl heh?
well y dont u do sumthing to show her its not all bout books
take her to a movie and hav fun
2006-11-25 18:09:32 · answer #9 · answered by natrual flirt 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask her to go to a game with you .
2006-11-25 18:07:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋