This girl say not to bother her on her away message because she is in a bad mood. I decided not to pay attention to it and ask what was wrong. I talked to her over AIM and she was really really upset and she told me what happened. This girl and I arent really friends more on the border of friends and aquaintenence. I was totally unrelated to the problem but I think that she got it out and felt better. Should I "help" her again like that or follow her away message?
2006-11-25 09:51:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, if she talked to you, then you should help her.
2006-11-25 09:53:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, you did the right thing the first time. If you followed your heart and did it out of concern for her, it payed off and she appreciated it. If you get another opportunity follow your heart again but make sure you have the right motives. Hopefully the friendship will grow and she will be able to open up to you and not send an away message. If not then just keep being you and if you are her friend then she will keep responding positively. You sound like a friend so keep doing what friends do. It seems to be working in your favor. Remember that relationships take work and you seem to be at the beginning stages so go for it. She might just apreciate having you to talk to.
2006-11-25 18:10:27 · answer #2 · answered by shuntae28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did the right thing.. even though you did not know anything about what she was going through or what was going on but she got to tell someone and it probally made her feel a bit better. Just talking to someone is the first step in feeling better. No way should you just ignore her the next time.. You should do what you did again and be there for her.. That is a friend and it sounds like she is lucky to have you there to talk to.
2006-11-25 17:57:08 · answer #3 · answered by iamcarrie77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough call. If you feel like you have the time, go for it, especially if you think you have helpful advice; on the other hand, if you feel uncomfortable, just leave it...
2006-11-25 17:55:24 · answer #4 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you can't really think of a way that you would actually be able to help her, but that you would always be there for her to vent if she needed to.
2006-11-25 17:53:40 · answer #5 · answered by Corona 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think u should definetly try and help her again, in a certain situation. You'll know when to help, and when to keep away... ;)
2006-11-25 17:54:46 · answer #6 · answered by thinraukowen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should help her again. seems like she trust you enough to show her emotions and to talk about her problems.
2006-11-25 17:55:08 · answer #7 · answered by jungle cheeks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did the right thing...
2006-11-25 17:54:23 · answer #8 · answered by redsox3770 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow her direction and stay away from her anyway.
2006-11-25 17:53:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it was nice of you to be there, now she knows if she needs you you are there
2006-11-25 17:58:26 · answer #10 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i was her i would want you to help me.but if you feel you dont want to.
2006-11-25 17:55:51 · answer #11 · answered by ~Native Solider~! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋