The mystery of the workings of a female's mind.
2006-11-25 09:49:36 · 32 answers · asked by smith_jma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Excitement is attractive.
Passion is attractive.
Nice guys who exude a passionate enthusiasm will beat a blase bad boy any day of the week.
2006-11-25 09:52:22 · answer #1 · answered by anirbas 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Women are drawn to a challenge, just like many men are, it is part of human nature, its called the CHASE. Once a woman knows she has you then it is no longer fun for her, does she know she is doing this? Probably not, so the secret is to never let anyone know that you are wrapped, in other words, because you are a nice guy do NOT let her talk down to you, do NOT let her walk all over you and if she does, make it clear to her that you have a lot to offer and that you can easily find someone else who would appreciate that. Some nice guys are pushovers, and that is something that is NOT attractive to a woman and could cause her to lose interest.
If you are a "confident" nice guy then you would never let a girl take advantage or manipulate you, so make sure you have that level of confidence so that you can know in your heart that no girl is worth letting her walk all over you. She will see that and she will more than likely stick around. Nice guy does NOT equal you are the boss and I am your slave.
Hope this helps!
:o)
2006-11-25 10:04:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is a tough one, so pay attention. What they really want is a bad boy they can turn into a nice guy so they can have the best of both worlds. The bad boy is exciting. The nice guy is the one her parents like. What fun is that? No, they want to find a bad boy and "love him enough to save him from himself". Even though that NEVER EVER works. Nice guys are dull and boring. Bad boys are fun and exciting. It's a sad but true statement: Treat 'em like sh!t, and they'll love you forever.
2006-11-25 10:04:34 · answer #3 · answered by rtanys 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is actually one of my favorite questions to answer!
There is a physiological reason that females go for the "bad boy"
The biological responses to being in love: Increased heart rate, increased breathing, heightened blood pressure, dialated pupils, sweat glands activated..
The biological responses to fear: Increased heart rate, Increased breathing, heightened blood pressure, dialated pupils, sweat glands activated..
Girls go for the bad boys because on the physiological level, the rush they get from this person they know they shouldn't be with is the same as the rush they get from being in love.
Also, females have the natural instinct to mother, which leads them to want to save those that they feel are in danger..
2006-11-25 10:49:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many girls suffer from low self esteem. If they meet a guy that is really nice to them, they start to feel uncomfortable because they wonder, "how could this guy like me so much when I am such a loser? He must be a bigger loser than me!".
When a bad boy likes a girl with low self esteem, she feels more at home with him because his opinion of her coincides with her opinion of herself. People want to be in familiar surroundings.
When this is happening, the girl doesn't even understand it herself. She is just not attracted to the nice guy. The older and stronger a girl gets the better she is at appreciating nice guys.
2006-11-25 10:10:38 · answer #5 · answered by sixgun 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The bad boy has self respect and doesn't let other people walk all over him. He is a go-getter. He is always interesting and exciting and will keep her on the edge. The nice guy is spineless, emasculated, wishy-washy, predictable, and lets people push him around. She doesn't want that kind of example for her future children. It basically ties into the thing about selection of the fittest.
2006-11-25 09:58:04 · answer #6 · answered by TarKettle 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know but I think girls fall for the bad boys of course but you still want a nice guy well to treat you nicely.
2006-11-25 09:51:38 · answer #7 · answered by chelz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because they are hooked on excitement, the adrenaline rush the "bad boy" gives them. These are the women who set themselves up for being hurt, abused, stomped on; they'll pass up the "nice guys" and hand their bruised, bloody hearts to scoundrel who cheats on them. These gals are damaged; when decent men fall in love with them, they'll pass up the opportunity for a wonderful, happy life because, as they'll say, "He's too nice." I had a friend like that. She passed up all the good ones & says she likes "bad boys." Her life is a wasteland, and she just doesn't learn or want to change.
2006-11-25 09:57:15 · answer #8 · answered by jdaylily 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Classic question. And proof that women in general are shallow and cannot admit it. A woman who says this just cannot admit to herself that she is slime and that she is only attracted to slime. She whines an dcomplains and does not care for her fellow man. Take this as a clue to NOT pursue her. If she liked nice guys then she would give herself to these nice guys and then have nothing to compalin about. In essence, ehr asking that question is also providing the answer.
2006-11-25 09:54:12 · answer #9 · answered by James 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
what you consider to be a nice guy is different from what she may consider in terms of what she is use too. Not really a mystery but only but a personal experience
2006-11-25 09:51:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋