Ok my bf broke up w/me because he said that he dosen't see me enough but now that's all different because i wash tables at lunch now and i can stay and talk as long as i want now i still like him and i think he likes me to how do i get him back???
PLZ BE SPECIFIC!
2006-11-25 09:44:36 · 15 answers · asked by MiseryBusiness 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hate to say it but if he really wanted to make it work he would. You've gone out of your way to find time to see him, if he felt the same way you do then he find a way to spend time with you. Not seeing you enough is probably an excuse, he's not strong enough to tell you how he feels and he's probably thinks he's sparing your feelings by blaming the situation instead of telling you how he feels. Give him time and he may come around, but don't wait for him. You should start moving on.
2006-11-25 09:54:33 · answer #1 · answered by tiqcy99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were trying to see him but just couldn't as much as he wanted because of circumstances than you did nothing to deserve getting dumped in the first place! Unless you're leaving some important parts out of this question it seems that he is too demanding and you're better off without him, at least untill he can learn to be more compromising and understanding of your situation.
2006-11-25 17:49:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure that is the real reason he broke up with you? You should tell him that you can see him as much as he wants to see you. You'll find out if that was the real reason for the break up. Guys hate to go through the trauma of telling a girl why they want to break up, so they will make up stories to make it not their fault.
2006-11-25 17:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by sixgun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing: Don't try.
If you really want him back, talk to him about anything but your relationship. Very few guys enjoy the relationship conversation.
If he sees you enough and you are smiling and positive then, if he wants you, he will make his move, otherwise what is done is done.
2006-11-25 17:48:14 · answer #4 · answered by anirbas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else to be with. Then he will know what kind of mistake he made by letting you go in the first place. It almost sounds like he has found someone else anyway.
2006-11-25 17:50:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a cheap (and phony) reason to break up with someone. Doesn't seem to me like a genuine reason. There's something else going on here.
2006-11-25 17:48:57 · answer #6 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOOOOOOOOO I know!!!!!!!!!!!!ok go 2 school in very cute reveling clothes. but wear a hoodie and something 2 cover your legs, and when you cleaning tables, go and clean his table, then act really hot (the temperature) and take off your over things. then act hot (the sexy kind). =D no boy can resist his x in strippers clothes
2006-11-25 17:49:39 · answer #7 · answered by Furious with America 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u hav more time to spend wit him now an if he wants 2 get bac 2gether it will happen
2006-11-25 17:48:54 · answer #8 · answered by candy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wait for him to ask you back out. dont throw yourself at him because that just means ur givin him what he wants without him having to work for it. and if he doesn't ask then that just means he's not for you. someone else is out there who will be able to see you enough.
2006-11-25 17:50:23 · answer #9 · answered by RedRose_08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start putting out.
2006-11-25 17:46:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋