Someone mentioned that a guy should make up a problem to test if the girl really truly love him for who he is & not for the potential for a better future. Can you give me some example?
2006-11-25 09:42:12 · 10 answers · asked by whyme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like a lack of trust there, not a test for true love. if someone did that to me, it would degrade my trust for that person.
2006-11-25 09:46:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
true love comes with in. It is not a game. It is not something you say just for the sake of saying. Who ever told you there is some type of question to ask or some type of test that you have to take is Wong.. If the guy truly loves you he will tell you. Beauty is only skin deep, true love come deep within. You like a person for who and what the person is, not how cute he or she is.
2006-11-25 09:47:13 · answer #2 · answered by chickeyis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend won't settle down with you because she hasn't found what she's looking for. I've never partied, or been into the party scene, I think it's a cess pool. But she's obviously looking for something within herself that she hasn't found, a sense of stability, she probably doesn't even know who she is. I think you might be asking a bit much of her, you knew she was a social butterfly, and a party animal. I'm a social butterfly, I can talk to anyone about anything.. and that's not a bad thing like you make it seem. I think you need to give this girl some time because you're pushing her away.
2016-03-29 08:51:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no, no. There is no test for true love. Even if you came up with some test that was not petty you would be breaking the true love because you would be deceiving your partner in order to administer the test. There is no test for true love. Only your heart can tell you if it is real and it is a risk but, you must decide if that person is worth the risk.
2006-11-25 09:45:41 · answer #4 · answered by Atypical 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its true love then you know, you shouldn't have to test the guy. Problems like that pop up on their own, trust me. I've been through many of those fights. Don't start one on purpose unless its going to be a very small one and you just want to make up. A fight that tests love comes on its own. Why would you want to hurt the person you love? every fight hurts.
2006-11-25 09:45:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a game! You do not have to go through test like these, to see if it is true love. No wonder the world is such a mixed up place1
2006-11-25 09:46:20 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so controlling! You can't really love somebody if you are "testing" them. That is really disrespectful to the girl. Just remember, girls won't love you right away, then they will love you more and more as time goes by, unless you SCREW IT UP. What is the hurry? Just enjoy it.
2006-11-25 09:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by sixgun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why play games?just accept the gift.or play with it and ruin both your lives.with her or without her,you both have the potential for better lives.its a bad thing to think you know what it is to be loved,and find out 20 yrs later that you were wrong.just go with it ,or let it go
2006-11-25 09:48:46 · answer #8 · answered by stonedhilbily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't! This is nothing but manipulative mind-gaming. Just be honest and genuine. If you're involved in this kind of manipulation, the truth will come out eventually and the mark of your "affection" will only see you as a phony, two-faced, back-stabber.
2006-11-25 09:46:09 · answer #9 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Testing and playing games is a dead end. Wrong!!!
2006-11-25 09:47:26 · answer #10 · answered by vato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋