Why am I so angry at others when things don't go my way?

Answer 1

everyone does it but you need to grow up and stop snapping at people its not healthy and it makes you look like a nut ball,try prozac or learn to control yourself

Answer 2

Ignore these other self-righteous people.

The reason you feel angry towards others generally comes when things don't go your way on a regular basis, and it can tend to feel like things are purposefully working against you to make you fail. After a while of this kind of thing happening to you, it starts to hurt, and your mind registers it as a personal attack. The problem is that sometimes it is a personal attack and sometimes it is just coincidence and sometimes it is God protecting you from one thing or preparing you for something else. All of it, combined, can make any person start to feel defensive. And whether it is right or wrong, it is a natural and human response to be angry.

I have lost so much, have been hurt so much, have been robbed of so much, that it created bitterness in me because it did damage to my heart. But what I learned from the Lord is that, when things get that bad, it means I am moving in the wrong direction. Doesn't mean the direction I was in was a BAD direction, but it meant it was the wrong direction the LORD wanted me to be facing. And as I strived to succeed MY WAY, I lost every time.

Answer 3

Anger is much easier to throw at someone else than to hold inside. Sometimes things just don't go our way. Thank God, because things usually work out better when they don't go our way! I wanted to have a baby for 7 years. I was angry a lot, I was angry at every young girl who got pregnant when they didn't want to when me and my husband wanted a baby so bad. Then one day, my sister became one of those girls, and now I have a beautiful baby. Things didn't go her way either, but now we are all happy. And I feel bad for all the rage and anger I had. I don't know if that will help, but I will pray for you, anyway.

Answer 4

You are angry at circumstances, possibly even at God.
You can't take your anger out on circumstances - a nonentity.
You think it is blasphemous to express your anger at God.
But your anger needs to be expressed, so you take it out on people around you.
That's the advantage of being able to have an open relationship with God: You can express anger to Him, letHim deal with it in your heart, and others get off the hook!

Answer 5

"man thinks in secret and it come to pass,environment is but his looking glass." from the little book "As a man thinketh" by James Allen. Anything that upsets you, it is because your mirror is reflecting a flaw within you. once you have corrected this flaw in yourself,then if you see it in another, you will just smile and say oh well, he will learn. If you try to correct the flaw in your "mirrow", without being asked, then you step through alices looking glass, into wonderland,& every thing gets distorted.

Answer 6

You are selfish and not thinking about the welfare of others. Ask questions before you get angry

Answer 7

Some people are more flexible than others. Keep cool and remember, the other person also has a point of view.

Answer 8

do what everyone else does and play the blame game- blame your parents- they obviously let you have your way as a child and now you do not know how to cope with it -- just learn to let it go-- say - i am letting it go( the anger)

Answer 9

How old are you? Sounds like you need a little more time to mature.

Answer 10

Lack of maturity, and you do not have much self worth.