goes way to fast he tried to freanch kiss me on are first date I want to break with him but I dont want to hurt his felling what should I do???????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!????????????? Help
2006-11-25 08:53:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anime Freak!!!!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have been going out for about 6 weeks.
2006-11-25 09:02:04 · update #1
You've only been on one date? Kinda soon to be calling him a boyfriend but you could actually talk to him and tell him that you don't like moving that fast and see if he gets the message. Then again if your mind is made up then break up with him. Quick and clean and don't look back. Do NOT tell him, "Let's just be friends" unless you want him to hate you that is. Guys hate, hate, HATE to hear that from females.
2006-11-25 09:02:26 · answer #1 · answered by Dark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's really not a way to break up with someone without hurting their feelings. Just be honest and say something like "this isn't working for me" the more you drag it on the worse it will be
2006-11-25 16:55:58 · answer #2 · answered by alltheanswers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be true to yourself. You can't just let him take advantage of you. If he really likes you and he respect you then he will understand you. Well, why don't you open up to him and if he listen on how you view things then your in a relationship but if he insist otherwise then you both ends will never meet. I believe that if you have mutual understanding with each other then things will work out just fine. Just have an open communication.
2006-11-25 17:02:15 · answer #3 · answered by meaurge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all dont do anything you arent ready for. second you need to tell him "we should take things slow". tell him when you feel uncomfortable. i know its easier said then done, but you dont want to be taken advantage of and regret doing something. you dont need to break up with him just because of that. just talk to him. if he doesnt slow down then hes a jerk and you should.
2006-11-25 16:57:45 · answer #4 · answered by sugababi500 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him straight up that your not the kind of girls that goes fast in relationships. so for that reason u have to break up with him
2006-11-25 16:56:41 · answer #5 · answered by Boochi Boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like him and he really likes you, then you can say to him "baby you know that i really you" wait for him to answer then you ask "do you really like me too and care about how i feel" let him answer then you say " well i'm having a bit of a problem, see i think that we are going too fast and i would really like it if we could just slow down and enjoy time instead of rushing it" " baby do you think that you can do this for me" allow him to answer if he is not willing to go slow then you say to him " i am really sorry to say this but i dont think we can continue seeing each other,i don't want a rushy relationship, i want one that will take its time and grow." if you really want him to go then your last response should be "i'm sorry , bye" and you leave.
2006-11-25 17:05:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anneka D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to him that he is going to fast and if he can't accept that and slow it down a little then you should break it off cause he is showing that he doesn't care about your feelings.
2006-11-25 16:56:41 · answer #7 · answered by alexandriahawthorne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can he be your boyfriend if you have only had one date???
Here's what you tell him.....Back off, when I am ready I will kiss you. If he can't respect your wishes...he only cares about his own feelings.
2006-11-25 16:57:47 · answer #8 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really dont want him to go so fast, then tll him, and if he tlls you to grow up then dump him, czu if he doesn't respect yo uthen you shouldn't date him.
Hope i could help
Alex
2006-11-25 16:56:39 · answer #9 · answered by Sexi-Lexi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to break up with him you should, he will get over it sooner or later.
2006-11-25 17:06:52 · answer #10 · answered by You Lames! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋