it's been a month since my boyfriend broke up with me and i'm still struggling through this breakup because i loved him, well actually i still do love him which is why it's so hard to get over him...i think he will always be a part of me no matter what but how can i move on with my life? what should i do? should i talk to him? he said when he broke up with me that he still wants to be friends but i can't handle JUST being friends with him cause ever since i met him i liked him so i've NEVER been JUST friends with him..when he told me he still wants to be friends i said i can't handle being friends with him...what should i do? i really need your help! please no mean or rude answers!
2006-11-25 08:49:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need detox. Stay away from him. Time will heal. Talk to y our friends about it. But please, STAY AWAY FROM HIM!!!!
2006-11-25 09:28:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's extremely difficult to move on after losing an important person in your life. It is near impossible to stay friends with someone whom you love so much. I think the best thing for you to do is put away all of his pictures, his letters, and things that remind you of him. You don't have to throw them out. Just put them in a box away in your attic somewhere where it won't remind you of him and make you sad.
Keep yourself busy. Surround yourself with friends or family whom you can rely on and who care about you. Take the opportunity if possible to do things you never got to do when you were in a relationship - travel, go out with the girls, etc. Find the things that you are really good at and pursue those things. They will give you fulfillment and will help you move on.
2006-11-25 09:03:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh yikes.......why does love have to hurt so much? One of the things I learned in life is that time does heal pain. Believe me, you never forget pain, but in time you learn to deal with it. You will damage any hope you have of ever getting back together again if you don't give him space. You need to get back out there (force yourself if you have too), talking from experience here, and start by just flirting and having fun. You will slowly come back, and you will eventually find "the one" and you will be his "one" and you will be happy again and more importantly fulfilled cuz he will return your love. Good Luck!
2006-11-25 08:57:33 · answer #3 · answered by jesswonderin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU HAVE A THING FOR FIRE DO NOT KEEP THE MATCHES AROUND, In order to get over him you have to fill your time with thing non related, go and volunteer at a Seniors home or an abused women's shelter or an animal shelter. find other things to occupy your self with, and soon you will be looking through different eyes
2006-11-25 08:55:56 · answer #4 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pray and try not 2 even think about him. Any time he comes 2 mind just instantly think of something else. Something pretty or pleasant.
2006-11-25 08:54:52 · answer #5 · answered by Gia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try not to think about him. Just move on and get a new boyfriend. It's going to make your life misrable if you just keep on thinking about him. It's better for you if you just move on.
2006-11-25 08:52:57 · answer #6 · answered by talk_to_the_hand!! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to be his friend and get out and meet other people, that wouldn't be a bad idea you might find someone better than him
2006-11-25 08:52:52 · answer #7 · answered by Alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a new one
2006-11-25 08:52:25 · answer #8 · answered by onethousandmilesfromnowhere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋