I recently broke up with my boyfreind of barely a month, and he took my virginity away....would you have broken up with yours if he was acting weird the whole week, not wanting to hold your hand, and heard he was cheating on you when you KNOW for a fact that he is definently capable of that? Plus he drinks and smokes weed...who knows what he is doing when he is high, plus he was acting weird all week(Nov 12-17)!!!!! To add on top of that, he let me go right away instead of trying to get me back...that was the worst...he said he needed some time off too...he totally turned my world upside down in so many ways!!!!!
2006-11-25 08:43:24 · 11 answers · asked by latin~ma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girlfriend, you did the right thing. You're obviously questioning yourself, yet you obviously have all the answers with all the right justifications.
Anyone would have done what you did, unless they were too weak to leave because of the fact that the man took their virginity. Be proud of your strength and intelligence as a woman. Women's intuition is one of the strongest earthly powers, never doubt it.
You're still worth 1000 times more than what he could have ever given you.
Good luck and God bless....
2006-11-25 08:52:01 · answer #1 · answered by ebonii_cuteee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cruel to say but if you already knew that he drinks and (worse)does drugs what do you expect from scum like that.
Sucks cause you can't control the heart from falling in love but you should of waited a bit longer to see what an ***-hole he was.
Maybe the drugs are f*cking him up and that's why he's acting that way but still that's not a good enough excuse for treating you like sh!t.
If one day he changes his mind and wants you back tell him to go to Drug rehab and AAA if he has an alcoholic problem too, that will prove that he really cares about you and want things to work out,But if you don't want him back to hell with him girl find someone who will treat you with respect.
2006-11-25 17:19:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch, that is really harsh.. but ya know what at least you got rid of him.. dont regret it either..if you believe that he was acting like a total S**t head to you then you did the right thing. Every girl experiences something terrible like this at one point, and it really hurts to go through.. and a guy just cant understand.. I would def not worry about him. Let him see you happy without him. never let a guy see you with your guard down, I have learned all my lessons the hard way.. if he is around .. even if it is really hard to do you just have to smile like he is just a distant memory.. in the end if he really really liked you.. he will be wondering why your so happy without him and he might start to come around..
2006-11-25 16:48:53 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet_Brunette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are, but there is never an age difference when it comes to respecting yourself. You have shared your sweetness with this fellow, and now he is gone. You should have saved the sweetness for the one you was destined to marry. However, it is never to late to ask for forgiveness from God. You will receive a brand new start. This time, wait until you know for sure that it is the right guy. All the signs you saw and heard at first should be obvious to you now. Focus-pay attention.
2006-11-25 16:55:59 · answer #4 · answered by Ucan2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was close to breaking it off with you any way. Pretty crappy choice in guys to give your virginity to. A life lesson in being a good deal more selective in who you not only date but sleep with. Move on. Do NOT take him back. Find someone better. You'll get over this.
2006-11-25 16:48:51 · answer #5 · answered by Dark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look mija its hard to get over ur first guy (especially if its ur virginity he stole and not ur heart), but at least look at it this way you wont fall that easy next time. From what u say smoke weed and drink. es un vato pelon que todo lo que le importa son sus amigos su marijuana y sus lowriders. try to forget about him he's not interested in relationships.
2006-11-25 16:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by x3la_gatax3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, this guy sounds like a loser anyways. next time date a little longer without sex so you get to know the person before things might get complicated
2006-11-25 16:48:12 · answer #7 · answered by Alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was definately NOT worth it. good move
2006-11-25 16:48:15 · answer #8 · answered by schisco45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would u date a loser in the 1st place????
2006-11-25 16:47:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it back fired on you didn't it? next time i bet you will mean what you say and say what you mean.
2006-11-25 16:50:31 · answer #10 · answered by BLOODHOUND 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋