I GOT A BOYFRIED I HAVE BEST FRIENDS IM HAPPY WITH WHERE IM AT IN LIFE WHY ARRENT I HAPPY?
2006-11-25 08:36:55 · 14 answers · asked by lost_in_love_still 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well if you are not happy, and you say you are happy with your life then you probably are not happy with yourself, you must learn to love yourself before you can truly be happy. i would suggest that you take some time and ask yourself what you truly want, and how you truly feel. i hope i was helpful.
2006-11-25 08:51:27 · answer #1 · answered by bigbob33 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boy that is a hard one......I and a lot of my friends have been in the same situation. Can I ask "Are you happy with yourself"? Do you feel pretty? I know since I gained weight this is the biggest issue affecting me to acheiving my happiness goal. I have a fiance, I have a home, I have friends too! The other question is "Do you take care of yourself", I think sometimes we are so busy taking care of others we forget we have needs. Too much going out and not enough going in. Find something that you really enjoy doing and make that a priority, even if money is a factor. They say that you should pay yourself first and put it into savings but remember pay yourself (take care of) first so you feel saved.
2006-11-25 16:51:16 · answer #2 · answered by jesswonderin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There could be a lot of answers to this question. I dreamed and dreamed of having a second child. It finally happened! We were so excited, and then after the delivery I was SO depressed and then I was mad at myself for being depressed because I knew my life was perfect and I had nothing to be depressed about, but sometimes they way you feel is just out of your control. Your body has so many hormones and chemicals that control so many things and emotions are one of them. If you are truly unhappy all the time, than you should talk to someone and see about seeing a doctor to find out if they can make you feel better. The only thing that got me through my hard time was my Christianity. It made me able to step back away from my depression and know logically that everything was OK I'm just sad and that's OK. With the right attitude and treatment, it can be fixed and my Savior (Heavenly Father) won't let me down. Hope this helps!
2006-11-25 16:42:34 · answer #3 · answered by Concerned Mom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are happy. If you analyze it too much you will talk yourself into thinking you aren't happy. Don't worry, be happy!
It helps to have something to look forward to. Pick a date and go on a trip or save up for something fun.
Do volunteer work in a hospital or a women's shelter. It is the happiest feeling in the world.
2006-11-25 18:14:30 · answer #4 · answered by sixgun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats the way humans are. wen they finally get their hands n something theyve anted for so long after a while it seems like wat u wanted isnt enough. u wan more because thats how humans are. they need things to entertain themselves. they want more than wat they need. u should be happy u got all of this because some ppl out there dont hav anything.
2006-11-25 18:13:47 · answer #5 · answered by FullMoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for many of us the Chase is more fun than the accomplishment, it is anti climatic to finally get the things we strive for
2006-11-25 17:31:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reflect on everything in your life, does it bring a smile to your face.
Does everthing go well all the time!!!!!!
Think about things......
Something is bothering you!!!!
What is it???
2006-11-25 16:46:38 · answer #7 · answered by purpleone726 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is like having all the tooth paste in you hand, all of it , now what are you going to do with it. Sounds like you are very easy to please or you function better when things are moving a bit faster
2006-11-25 17:13:54 · answer #8 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
are you a christian because i am a christian and i am very happy with my life it will probably help you too.
2006-11-25 16:39:41 · answer #9 · answered by believeinwishes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb you need to get more involved in your religon to fill the empty space in your heart
2006-11-25 17:30:00 · answer #10 · answered by Lucky#11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋