She was abused, molested as a child and is classic case of addictions, depression and sexual to heal her self image and inner child. I don't want to give up on her since I care in many ways. What to do?
2006-11-25 08:33:46 · 6 answers · asked by campbellkidjohn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd be careful. You are dropping a bunch of psychological phrases about abuse and addiction. Go slow. This could turn real bad for you unless you are sure about this relationship.
If you can recognize the "classic case of addictions, depression and sexual promiscuity" then you also know to not rush in on the "rebound" by falling in "love" too soon.
If it is really love it will last beyond the initial sexual tension. If it isn't -- it won't. You owe it to yourself to find this out before you do something really stupid.
2006-11-25 08:38:33 · answer #1 · answered by BShakey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can try couple's counseling..but are you sure that you actually in love with this woman b/c it is possible that you are trying to fill the void of your late wife..good luck and God bless
2006-11-25 08:37:24 · answer #2 · answered by goldengirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you want to sign up for the pain that this could cause you in the future? Could it be that your still in mourning and looking for something to fill the void?
2006-11-25 08:36:00 · answer #3 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly care for her, you should get her some counseling and attend the classes with her.
2006-11-25 08:37:53 · answer #4 · answered by kybradky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get her some help...this happened to my friends husband. He is starting counsiling and he says it is helping him a little_
2006-11-25 08:36:30 · answer #5 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her and want to be with her than get her help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-25 08:36:49 · answer #6 · answered by purpleone726 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋