I don't think i should be going out with my girlfriend any more. How can I do this in the nicest posssible way?
2006-11-25 08:31:11 · 17 answers · asked by felix c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her that the problem is with u and not her
she is perfect but u have too much on your plate at it's moment
let us know what happens
2006-11-25 08:36:07 · answer #1 · answered by me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever you say will upset her. no body likes to be dumped and remember how you felt when you were dumped. just tell her that you really like her but you think you should call it a day and give her the reasons. if she kicks you out the house so be it. if she is sad be there for her but be resolute and stick to your guns and tell her you would like to be friends. maybe you wont end up being friends but atleast later when the hurt and upset she feekls goes away she wil think back and realise your not as bad as she made out when you umped her if you see what i mean
2006-11-25 17:41:34 · answer #2 · answered by DesertRose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK. Think of the nicest way you will like someone to dump you and then use it.
2006-11-25 16:42:06 · answer #3 · answered by lolalinda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but there is no "Nice" way
put yourself in her position how would you feel if she were dumping you
So be as nice as you can and gently tell her that it's not working and that you should finish it. If floods of tears follow you have not suceeded in being nice
But be honest with her
She deserves that
2006-11-25 17:26:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her to six flags or some amusement park with a roller coaster ride. And when you and her are riding with your hands in the air lean over and tell her you are dumping her.
2006-11-25 18:51:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either way, she's gonna be hurt. The best way is to do it face to face. No dumping by text!
2006-11-25 17:09:53 · answer #6 · answered by b97st 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha,ha.. there is no nice way to dump someone... it always hurt..but just do it. Say it, words,talk,speak,explain.... but comunicate, don't ignore that one. Face to face, let the other one see the honesty in your sight, in ur eyes.
Good luck..
2006-11-25 16:42:35 · answer #7 · answered by NA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is never a nice way to dump someone,but i wouldnt recommend doing it via text! thats a cop out,you need to have the balls to tell her to her face
2006-11-25 16:34:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
by sitting her down and being totally honest with her ... if you find it too hard to speak to her face then write her a letter and explain everything in detail to her ... personally i would say it's best to say it yourself
2006-11-25 16:33:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can never be nice, but life deals us knocks and we have to deal with them. But don't be patronising, just be honest about your feelings/plans.
2006-11-25 16:36:53 · answer #10 · answered by filmwatcher59 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋