firstly, my guymates told the guy i fancy i like him cause i thought he liked me...turned out he fancies this other girl in my year whos really pretty, but she has a boyfriend. the thing is i really feel awkward around him and getting confused cause he was dogding me for a few days but now he's comfortable to come to me and my friends in class. i realise i might have been paranoid before cause he was staring but im jus a bit confused, what is he trying to say? also how can you get with a guy that you like cause i'm finding it trouble to find out why all the other girls in my sixth form year, who are blonde and popular, manage to get a boyfriend? im asian and brown, never had a boyfriend and feel like an outkast to all the girls. my friends say i'm pretty and dont need make up, but i jus feel less confident to make guys realise i like them, how do you do this? (please anwser all the questions!)xxx
2006-11-25 08:18:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the
tree. The boys don't want to reach for the good ones because they are
afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten
apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy.So the apples at the
top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing.
They just have to wait for the right boy to come along, the one who's brave
enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree.
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Really really hope that stuff works out for you. From what you've said, you deserve the best and i hope that this boy comes to his senses sooner or later.
I hope you soon gain the confidence to promote yourself in a nice and gentle way, and that you don't feel like an outkast for too long, because soon enough, people will realise the lovely person that you are.
Good luck to you. x
2006-11-25 08:32:51 · answer #1 · answered by FreakGirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, what makes you think you need a boyfriend?
You need to concentrate more on your education. In the long run, you will find a better boyfriend if you're smarter.
Most men when they are young are looking for eye candy, when they get older they want a smart woman.
If you like a guy, just let him know and if he turned you down, that's just the chance you take. It's like baseball, sometimes you strike out and then sometimes you hit a homer. Just don't let him get to first base on the first date, most boys are out to use girls. Play it smart and get an education!
2006-11-25 08:26:18 · answer #2 · answered by kybradky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOK .... YOU HAVE TO HAVE CONFIDENCE IN YOURSELF FIRSTLY!!! ALOT OF THE "POPULAR" GIRLS HAVE WAY TOO MUCH CONFIDENCE IN THEMSELVES DONT BECOME THEM BE YOU!!! AND THE TYPE OF GUYS WHO GO AFTER THE "POPULAR" GIRLS ARE USUALLY NOT THE TYPE OF GUY YOU WOULD WANT I WAS POPULAR IN SCHOOL AND THE GUYS THAT LIKED ME WERE JERKS!!!! BE TRUE TO YOU IM SURE YOUR BEAUTIFUL I HAVE DARK HAIR TOO AND I HAD NO PROBLEM GETTING BOYFRIENDS JUST DONT TRY SO HARD LET THEM FIND YOU REMEMBER IF YOU HAVE CONFIDENCE IN YOURSELF YOU WILL APPEAR EVEN MORE BEAUTIFUL
2006-11-25 08:24:27 · answer #3 · answered by carebear29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he he he, don't take this the wrong way, but your probably looking at the wrong guy, cause i know i would date you if i lived near you, most likely, but i just don't get noticed, he may know you like him but if he liked you to, he would say something or will, the only thing you can do is relize it wasn't ment to be and try to go find someone else.
2006-11-25 08:22:43 · answer #4 · answered by Todd M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just may have not met the right guy yet. Wait.
2006-11-25 08:21:12 · answer #5 · answered by jennie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok he might like you and the other girl. trust me its possible. you should ask him out or something.
2006-11-25 08:24:36 · answer #6 · answered by king cobra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋