Ok, so I like this guy down in Florida. The problem is, we have been friends forever, he is older than me, and well he might already have a girlfriend. I like him so much I would do practicly anything for him. I am soooo scared to ask him out because I have a 4 out 5 chance he is gonna say no. Nobody has every said no to me asking them out. What should I do?
2006-11-25 08:06:07 · 15 answers · asked by Fig Newton 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you should do and what you probably will do are two different answers. I have learned a lot from continuously being put in this position. What you should do is put all your cards on the table because in actuality you really have nothing to lose; easier said than done. Just tell him how you feel and pray for a miracle, that way in the long run, you won't have any regrets.
2006-11-25 08:10:16 · answer #1 · answered by [R4D] I'm too rad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've been friends with this guy for so long then you should be comfortable around one another. I had a friend who I was friends with for years before I decided we could be more than friends. I don't see why you would think you have a 4 out of 5 chance of him saying no. I think you should be honest. If it's meant to be it'll happen if not I'm sure you're better off.
2006-11-25 08:14:01 · answer #2 · answered by maria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play 20 questions to find out the info you need remember that is ten questions for each of you so you need to ask serious questions no games
if that does not work ou need write letters back and forth so he know how you feel and you know how he feels (sometimes people can express themselves beter in letters than in person)
if that does not work than just streight up ask him out if he say no well there is a first time for everything
2006-11-25 08:11:33 · answer #3 · answered by cool cat2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fear never gets you anywhere. The best you can do is flirt with him, ask and then..if he says no atleast you arent sitting there wondering "what if" no one gets anywhere without taking a risk, and you dont know what this guys going to say.
worst case scenario, he says no. And in that case, your young, and have plenty of time to find another guy.
2006-11-25 08:10:56 · answer #4 · answered by sillychickky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he is a really good friend you are better off staying friends, it is hard to find good friends as it is, but even harder to find a guy as a friend. But if you feel in your heart you were meant for each other I say go for it. There is nothing like having a best friend for a boyfriend.
2006-11-25 08:09:45 · answer #5 · answered by isis72eg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask him! A lot of guys are scared to ask girls, so how will anyone ever know?
2006-11-25 08:11:00 · answer #6 · answered by waltzorro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he lives far away from you keep your trap shut . if he lives near you and your more then 16 ask him out . if your over 21 ask him out and show him a really good time
2006-11-25 08:09:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i would ask him exactly how he feels about u, with what he says u can figure out if asking him out is a good idea,
2006-11-25 08:09:24 · answer #8 · answered by ERICA J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don"t ask him out nothings gonna happen!!!!!!!!but try the casual approch...........just say "hey, theres list movie i wanna see and i just wanted to know if you"d like to go with me! simple as that. you probabley go to the movies with a freind all the time. tell him your treat!!!!!!!!!!!11
2006-11-25 09:12:08 · answer #9 · answered by pollyanna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't know try to ask someone out with you. then he will see and say i would like to go out.
2006-11-25 08:27:59 · answer #10 · answered by saaranshbhalla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋