I Need Help?

Question

i need help. i think i am weird. because.. my friends don't mind talking about periods and bra sizes but i feel weird and like i hate being called a lesbian and things like that even though they know i'm not. its hard and i feel like my sister is annoying me. and i dont love her. i dont really feel love for any people exept the boys. i know i couldnt live without my mum dad or sister but they annoy me sometimes. what am i going to do. i cant talk to my friends about this neither

Answer 1

Its a normal part of growing up, you'll be fine...;

Answer 2

Being a young woman can be really hard. I feel for you. I went through a similar thing when I was a young teenager. I was a late bloomer and I HATED talking about periods, bra sizes, and things like that. It was really uncomfortable for me. Girls made me uncomfortable. That is probably why to this day I only hangout with guys (but that has a lot of huge downfalls!!!!) You don't want to end up like me having only guys friends. You need your girl friends, you need them for so many things, especially in the future.
Growing up there are a lot more milestones to cross and a lot more problems coming your way and girls will be better able to be there for you.
I suggest telling them that they make you feel uncomfortable with those topics. Maybe even try throwing caution to the wind and talking about those things anyway. Once you realize that they're not going to judge you and that they just want to share experiences with you it will be a lot easier.
(p.s. moms and dad's and siblings will always annoy you, get over it ;) )

Answer 3

You know...you just have something that kids today lack,...CLASS...sorry, but it used to be that we didn't tell everyone in the world about our bodily functions and personal information...but we live in a world now, where nothing is sacred, and we then sit back and wonder why we have no respect for each other...because we're letting it 'all hang out'...I think it is wonderful that you still blush, and get embarrassed...Nothing worse than sitting in a room full of men, and then a commercial comes on talking about crotch liners, odor, you got PMS and you are a raging monster once a month, you stink, etc...please, it is almost like the woman haters of the world got together to turn men off and then they make men think that they have to be the sensitive man, and actually (no pun intended) stick their noses into our 'business'...People were more respectable in the past, and there was a reason for it...we actually respected each other, and it was considered the right thing to do..including personal hygiene issues and bra sizes...don't hang with people like that, who are not of your caliber

Answer 4

Just because you aren't like the others doesn't mean you are weird. It just means you are you. If someone is calling you a lesbian, they aren't your friends, I suggest you find better ones to hang with.

Watch that love of the boys, they have one thing on their mind and will say and do anything to get it. Don't be foolish and go that route.

I suggest you talk to a counselor at school about how you are feeling. I am sure you will find that you are normal and its just all of the hormones surging through your body that is making you feel this way. I guarantee, it will get better.

Concentrate on your school work, do well, think about the future and what you'd like to do, be the best you.

Answer 5

Unfortunately almost everyone goes through this. I was considered weird as a young one, but if you don't take it serious it will not get you down. Just be you and like what you like. If you take life too seriously it will always be on you back. Just be happy with what makes you happy!

Answer 6

How old are you? I guess girls go through those feeling, but usually around 12-15 (maybe younger and older too)....if that's how old you are it will pass.

Answer 7

girl please! there is nothing wrong with u. my sis is the same way. she is 31 and still hates the word maxipad. all the other stuff is just adolescence.

Answer 8

temme................wat's the biggest size switch blade u can carry??


i mean come on.some one tells u **** u dun like.....talk back so fast that he/she won't have da guts ta answer back:D