Long story, but I finally feel I can't deal with "normal" jobs much longer. Am no oil painting, but "brush up well", am loving and giving, my partner is permanently impotent and I need money, to put it bluntly. If I can keep it from my daughter, is there any reason why not? I mean violence, really, past caring re the moral side.
2006-11-25 07:24:14 · 10 answers · asked by singingjulietruly 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
well personally no, but my best friend became an escort as she had spilt from her husband and had 2 kids to look after.
Its not all glamorous she says you deal mostly with between ordinary to very unattractive guys, who you got to take an interest in,occasionally you do get the odd good looker.best tip is to get in with one of the agencies, have a good look around, i know you have to pay them a percentage but its also safer to work in a parlour than on your own.remember even 2 girls and a maid is allowed nowadays.
Just remember the money is good, for the hours you work but just imagine what would happen if your husband found out or any of your daughters friends found out, i know the old cliche of if they don't like it they not worth knowing but it don't always work like that.
Violence well the most extreme she had was a guy push her to the bed about wanting to shag her without protection but she stood her ground and he backed off, luckily for her but she said she did feel afraid and she was also working in the parlours,I'm not saying every punter is a knife wielding maniac but you have to be so careful, there is also a sites where punters can rate you and one where girls can warn others about punters.
Apart from that good luck, and think long and hard before you do it
2006-11-25 13:04:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Here are my two cents (I'm not an escort but I've talked to a few): I'd say forget the guilt and the 'moral' side -- that stuff is a load of garbage. However, it's really important to make sure that you're ok with this psychologically before you jump in -- if you're going to feel as if you're dirty or guilty or damaged, then that needs to be worked on first.
Escorts don't have the issues of the street-walker with the pimp, of course. However, I do know that escorts get exposed to some weird stuff, depending on the location. I assume you'll be going with an escort agency - I think you need to talk to one or more of the girls to get an idea of what the agency is like to avoid the ones that abuse you (or even worse). That said, the following would be the precautions:
1. Either you or the agency only accepts calls to people's homes and from numbers that are not blocked. Hotels can be risky.
2. Never ever do ANYTHING without a condom -- clients may really want a bare-back b1ow job but don't ever do it -- ever. It's dangerous.
3. Get a cell phone and ONLY give that to the escort agency. NEVER your home number.
I hope others can give you more information than this. If I were a woman and looking into this, I'd be kinda scared and worried but, again, that's just me.
2006-11-25 07:36:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 1⤋
Well I take it you're not gonna be working on the streets so thats a start.
You should use a reputable place to advertise and only go to the clients house so you have an address to give to a contact.
I dont see any problem with it as I've used escorts in the past and met some really good people.
If you want to email me i can give you some websites to check out etc
2006-11-25 07:34:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well, there are definitely a lot of negatives to being an escort... disease, violence, etc.
If you are seeking a supplement to your partners impotence, I am sure you'd have no trouble find willing - safer men.
If you are willing to go down the path of "sex trade"... Have you considered having a website and/or making films. It would be a lot safer and still fulfill needs without having to work a typical job.
Best of luck!
2006-11-25 07:35:51 · answer #4 · answered by kiltboi 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-13 02:29:22 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be very careful. Make sure you know what is expected of you, and if it is something you can truly handle.
Think about how it will make you feel.
Make sure the company is legit.
God Bless.
2006-11-25 07:32:24 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs.Gaddis 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I'm not going to rant at you that you are doing something stupid or anything like that, you may be a complete stranger to me but just take care
2006-11-25 07:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by Greg K 2 · 5⤊ 2⤋
search your heart if that is what you want go for it but if it just for the money there must be other choices
2006-11-25 07:35:18 · answer #8 · answered by norsmen 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Becoming a "stripper" is safer, and will keep you from diseases also.
2006-11-25 10:24:12 · answer #9 · answered by Sister Matylda 1 · 4⤊ 6⤋
I think its a Bad idea.. and a Dangerous one at that.
Stop degrading yourself. Stop being Lazy...
2006-11-25 07:49:17 · answer #10 · answered by yo mama 4 · 0⤊ 10⤋