2006-11-25 07:04:14 · 12 answers · asked by little_friend 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are not by yourself, see i married that same sort of man and i have regretted it on a lot of occasions, im suffering from it as we speak!! what seems to be our problem?
2006-11-25 07:07:53 · answer #1 · answered by uimblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because ...it feels safe usually. You can be in the position to 'make it all better' and it makes you feel powerful. I'm not saying it in a bad way but you obviously view yourself as better them then or at least more evolved, and it's always easier to approach people that aren't on 'your level' at least to me. Perhaps work on building your self-confidence around guys that are more your type, it could be 'daddy issues' too, again sorry, but it's classic psychology stuff.
2006-11-25 07:11:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be those men are using you, because you feel sorry for them...
okay - but why are you going out with men you feel sorry for? is there a particular reason ?
2006-11-25 07:08:04 · answer #3 · answered by South Londoner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eric Berne described people like you in great detail. You're not a bad person, but you like being a selfless charity. It's time to get real.
2006-11-25 07:10:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you feel sorry for them perhaps?
2006-11-25 07:11:03 · answer #5 · answered by Billy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No real self control
2006-11-25 09:26:28 · answer #6 · answered by gibs_neil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's because you have a good heart, this is nothing to be ashamed of.
2006-11-25 07:10:12 · answer #7 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because, you're compassionate, funloving, considerate and probably a losing little w h o r e !
2006-11-25 07:18:48 · answer #8 · answered by Steven S 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm really down on my luck.....want to get a drink?
2006-11-25 07:07:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you needy yourself in some way?
2006-11-25 07:18:14 · answer #10 · answered by punkyboygirl_24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋